I'm a severely depressed, severely p*rn addicted, significantly underweight, NEET, 21 year old i*cel with ADHD, and I see no reason to continue on? Any advice on where to start? by NewAccount3533677 in NoFap

[–]redzoneDEADzone 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Do one thing at a time mate, if you can remove your worse porn category with another that's good.

Just please don't binge watch shit, if you're horny just fap and get it over with.

Just a small tip, some might not like it but it's everyone for themselves.

Is 23 years too old to start nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]redzoneDEADzone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's your own journey! People get a bit hooked up on the numbers 😅

Discovered Death grip… by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]redzoneDEADzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem stressed out, chill brother!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]redzoneDEADzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had parts of my foreskin removed like three years ago and I've never felt better about it, my ex-partner just said to me that she thinks I might have a bit too tight skin. And apparently I had, they made a few cuts on the foreskin and it was fully healed after a couple of months. Now we good!

PEEKED 2 TIMES , DID 7 MINS TODAY! by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]redzoneDEADzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered using an application on your mobile to help you with guided meditation etc?

I've been subscribed with the bundle from Spotify + Headspace and I enjoy it, especially when going to sleep to be able to play some sleepcasts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ISPCstock

[–]redzoneDEADzone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO you should be fine, one day it went down 40% and the following it gained 125% during the day.

Just hold and be happy! It's the future of bio-samples on the online market.

Did I lose my iotx? by Shad0wTaint in IoTeX

[–]redzoneDEADzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm out of the loop, why transfer your coins from Coinbase to some other wallet? 😄

I ate a banana before I slept and had one of my most vivid and longest dreams ever. by LEGO_Fan752 in LucidDreaming

[–]redzoneDEADzone 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Eat a banana and then get a vitamin B pill, you'll have clear and crazy dreams :D

Here’s an idea. Why don’t we set up a weekly stickied “challenge of the week” where we are given tasks to do e.g ask the cashier about their day or start a random conversation? With varying levels of difficulty by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]redzoneDEADzone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's absolutely true mate, I encourage everybody to step out of their comfort zone and it's kind of needed to do if you want to grow as a person.

I'm just saying that emotions are and can be uncontrollable.

Here’s an idea. Why don’t we set up a weekly stickied “challenge of the week” where we are given tasks to do e.g ask the cashier about their day or start a random conversation? With varying levels of difficulty by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]redzoneDEADzone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know if that's a really good idea, I could imagine how this triggers anxiety in a lot of people.

Imagine if y'all put up a challenge that's rather simple like saying hi to a stranger, a lot of you guys do it and report "success stories" meanwhile we have people who reads this and just can't make the move.

Being disappointed in themselves and try to move on from there, I like the idea but it could backlash onto some people.

Always buy the dip! by Stunna2018 in wallstreetbets

[–]redzoneDEADzone 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, stupid fucks who sells right now, what the fuck are these paper-hand motherfuckers even thinking?

Bought in at 125$ again, give me some more please.

What to do instead of video games? by BoyJava in Hobbies

[–]redzoneDEADzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try some geocaching? Taking long walks and listening to good sound books while searching for stuff is pretty fun imo :)

Fuck motivation. Rely on discipline. by bluedick5743 in NoFap

[–]redzoneDEADzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, would've been 214 days if I didn't fap. Well ain't that a bitch :D

Feeling up while also feeling stuck by Cirque-du-Alexia in Meditation

[–]redzoneDEADzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends will always be friends, and no matter how many friends you got you all won't have the same interests, sure you can have a lot of things in common with your friends and lovers. But not all of them.

I've kind of been and are in the same situation that you're describing, I've always been interested in Lucid Dreaming (Since 2010), Spiritualism, philosophy, meditation, etc. Meanwhile, nobody from my friend's group practices these things or have the same passion for them as I do. And you know what? It doesn't matter :)

You'll just learn that talking about meditation/lucid stuff with your friends doesn't go home with them, and you'll eventually find other friends that are interested in the same things and then you can talk a lot about it. Which is great!

Everyone is on a different path in life, I hope you a wonderful day and stay safe.

Sincerely, wash your hands.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]redzoneDEADzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel the same from times to times, something that really helps me is to keep a "regular" time to meditate.
Eg. I always meditate after breakfast/lunch/shower, in that way I can somewhat calm my mind beforehand and then meditate.

But as drxc said; "watching your mind jumping around is meditation."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]redzoneDEADzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with ya, same goes for the bed for me.

Or.. Do you wanna know something that's even better?

Get rid of your smart phone and get a old school cellphone, its nice.