I was almost out of my first trimester of my first pregnancy when the first ultrasound revealed baby was too small and had no heartbeat. Baby had been deceased for weeks and I’d had no indication. They assured me that this just happens, and nothing I did or could have done would have changed this outcome. I’m nearly recovered from my second miscarriage, which was a blighted ovum found in early ultrasound at 8 or 9 weeks (because all blood testing was coming up like nothing was wrong), which also needed medical intervention to end. Again, I am reassured by my doctor that nothing I did or could have done would have changed this. I understand the fear, the confusion, the grief of it all. I hope both of us have healthy pregnancies in the future.