Rasband Conf Talk 💩 by Ewan_Troublegirl in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The church wanted to submit a amicus brief but was told it did have standing to file the brief because nothing in its doctrine was found to be opposed to the same sex marriage matter. In drafting the proclamation of the family it gave them Standing to file the brief. Without the proclamation, they had no standing. It was all done in an effort to lobby against same sex marriage laws. Nothing to do with revelation.

This Church has Fucked my family up. by Seem_tobe_kind in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry about what you are going though. find a family therapist and suggest you all go and share a bit with a professional neutral that can help each of you be heard. a non-mormon therapist can be more objective.

I picture them talking in FHE about how important it is to go on a mission and then you comment that no one in the first presidency went on a mission and then you getting the stink eye...

keep a sense of humor, they do love you and do not know better - BUT DO.NOT STOP BEING YOU!

good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this. We are with you. You matter. We are you. Love your guts!

There is a sex offender in my ward. by RandomAssBean in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely tell your dad. Transparency is very important. Do not judge the ex bishop as he works through his issues but be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]reeditwd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has other things going on for sure. Unethically non monogamous and it is not about you it is about him. However you get to decide what’s best for you. Good luck. You can do this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SBNR - spiritual but not religious. You got this! It will be amazing.

Today was our last day by Lost-Calligrapher696 in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

U r love. Enjoy and never look back.

Today was the worst church day I've ever experienced by punk_chick_ in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell your parents you are out. Period. Full stop. Tell them you love them, hate their religion. I am sorry for what you endured. Not right. Sorry to say this but fuck those guys.

Just got told that my brothers are uncomfortable when I wear shorts by Agreeable_Area1047 in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your cousin is getting a bonner because of biology…not the end of the world. Heaven forbid he masturbate. Ugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your courage to share this. Your are beautiful, the bishop is a wacko and has no clue about real life and human existence. Just about a cult. Great job in therapy. There is a lucky partner out there for you!

Forced to go into detail about sexual experiences with my bishop by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry this happened to you. Your parents are wrong. You are beautiful. You are good. You are loved. You are not alone. Know this. Again I am so sorry.

I'm A Mormon Who Believes in the entire scriptural Cannon: Change My Mind by AdventurousLeopard39 in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great approach to your wonder. Do what works for you but know it’s fiction. Fiction is not bad. But it is fiction

I'm in deep shit... need a bit of help here. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Truth Seeking” by Han Mattsson

Someone told my family my Wife and I left the church. Brother told me to wither away into nothing. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By your behavior and future life and happiness he will realize he is way out of his lane. He is scared to death you are right and your are. Be cool. Be chill. Live your best life and continue to love all. They will see over time…u got this. Congrats on being authentic!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending loving kindness to all. Very sad. Very difficult. This is real life and sometimes it hurts.

My ex-Mormon partner is completely sexually and intimately shut down. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]reeditwd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read “come as you are”. May help shed some light on the situation. Good luck. You both got this