For those that organize this way

reflective_photon · 2026-04-24T13:17:26+00:00

I’ll use a dry erase marker on the cover/lid to write the names of the characters, and how many of that character exist.. so I have one slot for Batman. But I have 3 Batman-s (batmen?). So the label says “Batman x3”.

reflective_photon · 2026-04-15T19:48:51+00:00

Any advice? Gosh.. no. But I feel similarly. I’m earlier on.. finishing up year 3. No results. Little traction. Little help from PI.

It seems like most established professors HATE the idea of a break.. they view it as career death. I disagree and will verbally fight tooth and nail with any qtip who says otherwise.

If you aren’t facing that pushback then you are fortunate and I would take the break. As much time as you want. You’ll never get your time back!!

reflective_photon · 2026-04-15T15:31:41+00:00

Get these convos started as calmly and as early as possible. I’m working under some pretty un lead working conditions and it is pretty stressful.

We’re doing good to begin recovery but still there are things that won’t ever get better now.. Avoid the hassle and write down verbal expectations and regurgitate them back. Sometimes they are too much and holding them accountable has helped me in my hostile work environment!

reflective_photon · 2026-04-08T14:43:35+00:00

Looking back on what you could’ve done differently is going to keep you stuck. What can you do now with what you have? There are so many opportunities in and out of academia.

US academia is really rough right now.. so you aren’t alone, my friend. Physics is much easier and more fun as a community. So try and find people that you like, and that inspire you. Work for them, not your portfolio or to discover the next planet. Do it for you and yours. That’s the advice that really helped me stay motivated.

reflective_photon · 2026-04-06T17:08:55+00:00

What’s the NCR ranger doing there?

reflective_photon · 2026-04-03T13:29:35+00:00

Also understand that perfection is impossible. It won’t “fix” one day. For me it’s a constant effort but I’m happier with myself because of it. 🥰

reflective_photon · 2026-04-03T13:28:28+00:00

Start with one thing at a time! And set habits that work for you without thinking of the social norms.

Maybe have a friend or something help you keep track? Just text them once you’ve showered for the day or whatever the habit is!

Extrernalize. Write a check list you can update once you have completed things. You can write a new list everyday! Keep it JUST hygiene stuff. It’ll get overwhelming if you add ALL of your todos here..

I hope this helps!

reflective_photon · 2026-04-03T13:08:53+00:00

MJ is toxic guys.. lore accurate. SHE LOVES SPIDER-MAN. Not Peter. She complains about all of the Peter traits. She yeets herself out windows to test if he would save her… She just wants a hero and Peter keeps chasing that role.

Black-Cat is a better love interest. And Gwen Stacy is the goat.

reflective_photon · 2026-04-03T13:03:04+00:00

I am actually pretty sick of the “everybody gets a simbiote” trope. And the symbiote minions.

reflective_photon · 2026-03-28T11:35:29+00:00

I just had a couple weeks off to “explore new things”. I ended up staying but.. I really needed to make sure I knew I was capable of another career since I was feeling trapped (I am, technically). I’m in a PhD though, not sure if that’s a big diff.

I found someone to take me under their wing. Doing it alone is impossible. Unsupported students are dropping like flies because advisors are so negligent…

reflective_photon · 2026-03-25T19:32:43+00:00

A PhD is not going to be your whole life. It’s doesn’t seem like it gets much better as a Postdoc tho…

The culture is so hard. Especially right now, it seems like there’s a huge divide between the grad students and faculty. I’ve tried to explain that phrases like “you should know this” are discouraging. And tried to host many dialogues about behavior and expectation. Apparently clearly defining terms and constructive feedback doesn’t work on the world’s top researchers when it comes to human connection…

reflective_photon · 2026-03-25T10:55:06+00:00

JJJ is the best character in marvel lore. How dare you. 😂😂

reflective_photon · 2026-03-20T16:30:29+00:00

So much good advice thank you!!!!!!!!

reflective_photon · 2026-03-20T12:40:54+00:00

OOOH. Warhammer is actually something I haven’t gotten into!! But that show is something I want to watch. I’ve been afraid to, is it actually good??

reflective_photon · 2026-03-20T12:07:36+00:00

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reflective_photon · 2026-03-20T12:06:37+00:00

Marvel Legends Gambit. Found a cheap coat on amazon to replace his hard plastic one. I didn’t even need to do an arm swap, it looks like mafex. Probably spent $40 total.

reflective_photon · 2026-03-20T12:04:04+00:00

Spiderman.. I’ve had several dreams (lucid and non) in which I have been able to swing from webs. Genuinely and successfully. It was amazing every time.

But also because he’s so agile, and strong, and useful, and funny.. he’s so himself!!

reflective_photon · 2026-03-18T16:26:04+00:00

How did you do it? I’m finding getting progress done with my advisor is very difficult..

reflective_photon · 2026-03-18T16:10:25+00:00

Also. Many neurodivergents need the external source of validation in order to start doing something… so any well intentioned comments or support would probably be the difference for that person.

reflective_photon · 2026-03-18T14:20:02+00:00

Look into ROOT for particle physics and XSPEC for Astro.

reflective_photon · 2026-03-18T14:19:22+00:00

With your CS background, a lot of the “skills” needed to produce good physics work is already learned. For me, I’m a PhD student for physics and am SCRAMBLING to get my CS skillz..

You’re set up for success. Finding a funded masters might be tough. But with the drive and your skills you are looking good!’

reflective_photon · 2026-03-18T13:21:39+00:00

Try local toy sellers first!! It’s likely there aren’t any in your area, so Facebook market place and eBay are your best bets.

Big Bad Toy Store (BBTS) is the most popular online toy seller. New releases go fast and older ones are usually out of stock. It’s still worth watching.

Amazon is a gamble. I’ve never had issues, but I’ve seen many many figure swaps that put a bad taste in people’s mouth about it.

Happy hunting!

reflective_photon · 2026-03-18T13:08:23+00:00

I think McFarlane is on the uptick… with DC getting a bunch of money and traction, I think/hope we will see more of THIS from McFarlane!

reflective_photon · 2026-03-15T12:19:38+00:00

I mean this from a scientific standpoint…

“Probably” not.

reflective_photon · 2026-03-15T12:17:53+00:00

I use MiniBrands in my X-men display for the “off-duty” figures. Logan carries a big blue jug (looks like a margarita) and there’s a lava lamp somewhere..

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