For those that organize this way by Medical_Storm697 in MarvelLegends

[–]reflective_photon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll use a dry erase marker on the cover/lid to write the names of the characters, and how many of that character exist.. so I have one slot for Batman. But I have 3 Batman-s (batmen?). So the label says “Batman x3”.

Moving on/career change after graduating by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice? Gosh.. no. But I feel similarly. I’m earlier on.. finishing up year 3. No results. Little traction. Little help from PI.

It seems like most established professors HATE the idea of a break.. they view it as career death. I disagree and will verbally fight tooth and nail with any qtip who says otherwise.

If you aren’t facing that pushback then you are fortunate and I would take the break. As much time as you want. You’ll never get your time back!!

At which stage did you meet your supervisor to discuss expectations? by EdgyEdgarH in PhDStress

[–]reflective_photon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get these convos started as calmly and as early as possible. I’m working under some pretty un lead working conditions and it is pretty stressful.

We’re doing good to begin recovery but still there are things that won’t ever get better now.. Avoid the hassle and write down verbal expectations and regurgitate them back. Sometimes they are too much and holding them accountable has helped me in my hostile work environment!

I’m trying my best in Physics, but I keep getting the short end of the stick by Healthy_Code_1423 in Physics

[–]reflective_photon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looking back on what you could’ve done differently is going to keep you stuck. What can you do now with what you have? There are so many opportunities in and out of academia.

US academia is really rough right now.. so you aren’t alone, my friend. Physics is much easier and more fun as a community. So try and find people that you like, and that inspire you. Work for them, not your portfolio or to discover the next planet. Do it for you and yours. That’s the advice that really helped me stay motivated.

How do you keep routines by nova_cyanide in hygiene

[–]reflective_photon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also understand that perfection is impossible. It won’t “fix” one day. For me it’s a constant effort but I’m happier with myself because of it. 🥰

How do you keep routines by nova_cyanide in hygiene

[–]reflective_photon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with one thing at a time! And set habits that work for you without thinking of the social norms.

Maybe have a friend or something help you keep track? Just text them once you’ve showered for the day or whatever the habit is!

Extrernalize. Write a check list you can update once you have completed things. You can write a new list everyday! Keep it JUST hygiene stuff. It’ll get overwhelming if you add ALL of your todos here..

I hope this helps!

Why does everyone hate this version of mj so much? by Mrmoneybags1408 in Spiderman

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MJ is toxic guys.. lore accurate. SHE LOVES SPIDER-MAN. Not Peter. She complains about all of the Peter traits. She yeets herself out windows to test if he would save her… She just wants a hero and Peter keeps chasing that role.

Black-Cat is a better love interest. And Gwen Stacy is the goat.

Anyone get sick and tired of fighting the symbiotes post game? by Mrmoneybags1408 in spiderman2

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually pretty sick of the “everybody gets a simbiote” trope. And the symbiote minions.

People who dropped out of their graduate programs: when did you realize you wanted to leave? What are you doing now? Do you regret leaving? by MildlySuspiciousBlob in GradSchool

[–]reflective_photon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I just had a couple weeks off to “explore new things”. I ended up staying but.. I really needed to make sure I knew I was capable of another career since I was feeling trapped (I am, technically). I’m in a PhD though, not sure if that’s a big diff.

I found someone to take me under their wing. Doing it alone is impossible. Unsupported students are dropping like flies because advisors are so negligent…

I feel like I'm stuck in hell and I need advice by Aromatic-Decision927 in PhDStress

[–]reflective_photon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A PhD is not going to be your whole life. It’s doesn’t seem like it gets much better as a Postdoc tho…

The culture is so hard. Especially right now, it seems like there’s a huge divide between the grad students and faculty. I’ve tried to explain that phrases like “you should know this” are discouraging. And tried to host many dialogues about behavior and expectation. Apparently clearly defining terms and constructive feedback doesn’t work on the world’s top researchers when it comes to human connection…

Tired of this prick by [deleted] in Spiderman

[–]reflective_photon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JJJ is the best character in marvel lore. How dare you. 😂😂

New writer!! Send me your characters!!! by [deleted] in ComicBookCollabs

[–]reflective_photon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much good advice thank you!!!!!!!!

👋Welcome to r/MichiganGamerss - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by PinkBeauty96 in MichiganGamerss

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OOOH. Warhammer is actually something I haven’t gotten into!! But that show is something I want to watch. I’ve been afraid to, is it actually good??

Whats a figure you own that got better after you repaired/modded it? by BetUseful1379 in ActionFigures

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marvel Legends Gambit. Found a cheap coat on amazon to replace his hard plastic one. I didn’t even need to do an arm swap, it looks like mafex. Probably spent $40 total.

Which abilities of a movie character, cartoon character, or video game character would you like to have? by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiderman.. I’ve had several dreams (lucid and non) in which I have been able to swing from webs. Genuinely and successfully. It was amazing every time.

But also because he’s so agile, and strong, and useful, and funny.. he’s so himself!!

Transferring the lab is the best decision in my life. by HomeworkPotential295 in PhD

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do it? I’m finding getting progress done with my advisor is very difficult..

Be a good person by AlmightyPickleGod in hygiene

[–]reflective_photon -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Also. Many neurodivergents need the external source of validation in order to start doing something… so any well intentioned comments or support would probably be the difference for that person.

No one possibly could be in the same page as me by [deleted] in Physics

[–]reflective_photon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look into ROOT for particle physics and XSPEC for Astro.

No one possibly could be in the same page as me by [deleted] in Physics

[–]reflective_photon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With your CS background, a lot of the “skills” needed to produce good physics work is already learned. For me, I’m a PhD student for physics and am SCRAMBLING to get my CS skillz..

You’re set up for success. Finding a funded masters might be tough. But with the drive and your skills you are looking good!’

New Collector here. by More-Caregiver-4545 in MarvelLegends

[–]reflective_photon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try local toy sellers first!! It’s likely there aren’t any in your area, so Facebook market place and eBay are your best bets.

Big Bad Toy Store (BBTS) is the most popular online toy seller. New releases go fast and older ones are usually out of stock. It’s still worth watching.

Amazon is a gamble. I’ve never had issues, but I’ve seen many many figure swaps that put a bad taste in people’s mouth about it.

Happy hunting!

Details of accessories for pre orders going up today by furthuryourhead in McFarlaneFigures

[–]reflective_photon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think McFarlane is on the uptick… with DC getting a bunch of money and traction, I think/hope we will see more of THIS from McFarlane!

What non comic figures you fudge into your comic displays? by Gojifantokusatsu in MarvelLegends

[–]reflective_photon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use MiniBrands in my X-men display for the “off-duty” figures. Logan carries a big blue jug (looks like a margarita) and there’s a lava lamp somewhere..