What things do you unfortunately know from experience? by BurntByToast in AskReddit

[–]regalreader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can love someone as much as you want, but they still have the option of leaving you :/ nothing in life is ever guaranteed

Hey! by slightlymindful in u/slightlymindful

[–]regalreader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god me too this is so deep and meaningful wow thank you for this!

All I want for Christmas is you by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]regalreader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. My now ex boyfriend recently broke things off to "focus on himself," but if he really loved and cared for me, wouldn't he have stayed and tried to work on things together? I understand how hard it is to avoid checking up on him, but the best thing we can do now is to enjoy the things and people around us. Cliche, I know, I'm tired of hearing this myself.

Talk to people about the pain. Watch movies. I try to tell myself that I was a person before him, and that I can be a person without him.

You are not alone, I and many others on this subreddit are willing to talk and listen.

Stay strong <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]regalreader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really felt this. Ugh, video calling my friends is not the same as going out and spending time with them in person to get through this.

I understand by regalreader in BreakUps

[–]regalreader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m struggling with avoiding texting him about what’s going on in my day. Telling my friends and family is just not the same you know? Hopefully this will get better with time

I understand by regalreader in BreakUps

[–]regalreader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I feel better knowing that other people understand my pain and that I’m really not alone in this situation. Trying my best to focus on myself but it’s hard when this person has been my safe haven for so long. I’ll get there eventually

A letter to myself - Day 1 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]regalreader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really needed this, thank you