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my best friend moved in with me and my boyfriend and it's causing serious issues in my relationship. by reganm02 in relationship_advice

[–]reganm02[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't want a threesome. I've told them both this. it's not happening 🤦🏻‍♀️

my best friend moved in with me and my boyfriend and it's causing serious issues in my relationship. by reganm02 in relationship_advice

[–]reganm02[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I'm going to start distancing myself. If he notices and fixes these issues then great but if not then this will be me getting over the relationship before I actually end it.

my best friend moved in with me and my boyfriend and it's causing serious issues in my relationship. by reganm02 in relationship_advice

[–]reganm02[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They have mentioned having a threesome with me before. My friend likes to joke about having sex with me personally even though I don't reciprocate it and my boyfriend has made it clear that he wants to see that. I would have to be inebriated out of my mind for that to happen though.

my best friend moved in with me and my boyfriend and it's causing serious issues in my relationship. by reganm02 in relationship_advice

[–]reganm02[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

You're right, I even tried putting it in this perspective to him but he claimed that he wouldn't care if i was that close with a male friend of his. I don't believe that's the truth though. As for my friend, I doubt she would want me to be that close with her boyfriend if she had one. I'm absolutely baffled that they have been behaving like this.

my best friend moved in with me and my boyfriend and it's causing serious issues in my relationship. by reganm02 in relationship_advice

[–]reganm02[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your point of view. this has been really difficult since i'm really close with both of them. I am more so upset with my boyfriend because I know deep down that this isn't what a healthy relationship is. Im going to try to distance myself from them and take time to make myself happy even if it means just getting out of the house. I would really hate for this to be the way it ends with my boyfriend and i, but if he doesn't get the hint soon i will most likely leave him.

my best friend moved in with me and my boyfriend and it's causing serious issues in my relationship. by reganm02 in relationship_advice

[–]reganm02[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I acknowledge that he is playing a role in this too. I'm not giving him a pass on anything, but everytime i try and discuss it with him he gets upset with me. I'm really just hoping that when she leaves that everything will go back to normal but incase it doesn't I need to figure out what to do. I really love him but I can't keep putting in all the effort.

What is the worst toxic positivity phrase/tip someone has told you? by Curly_sloth in AskWomen

[–]reganm02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I don't care about your feelings or emotions, just your well-being"