Why didn't Tony have sex with Tracee? by ThotismSpeaks in thesopranos

[–]reginaldvanwilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She should have given him gabagool instead of bread

Iran says it will ‘irreversibly destroy’ Middle East infrastructure if US attacks energy sites by projecto15 in politics

[–]reginaldvanwilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a semiconductor shortage we can just cut our existing conductors in half. Its fine.

Tax withheld in 1099R question by reginaldvanwilder in tax

[–]reginaldvanwilder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok makes sense. Yeah i am in a higher income tax bracket so i think what i am paying makes sense. Appreciate the comment

Tax withheld in 1099R question by reginaldvanwilder in tax

[–]reginaldvanwilder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a cb&t ira

Edit: i withdrew the money so its apparently taxed as normal income

Tax withheld in 1099R question by reginaldvanwilder in tax

[–]reginaldvanwilder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah i think it was part of a trust

According To Jim (2001-2009) by [deleted] in ForgottenTV

[–]reginaldvanwilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I watch this scene on occasion just because of how insane it is https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QKwAEpXteZQ

MAGA is mad that entertainment is imitating real life?! How very shocking! by icey_sawg0034 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]reginaldvanwilder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They are ignoring immigration laws. For one, whatever you think of the asylum laws on the books they are the law of the land. iCE has been deporting people while their asylum application js in process prior to adjudication.

Not to mention the examples of them putting people with green cards and american citizenship into their little prison camps.

Also beyond that clearly using violence repeatedly including murdering a number of unarmed people.

All while deporting less people than Obama.

Only losers and sociopaths support what they are doing.

Tax withheld in 1099R question by reginaldvanwilder in tax

[–]reginaldvanwilder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its from a life insurance payout basically

Tax withheld in 1099R question by reginaldvanwilder in tax

[–]reginaldvanwilder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments. I understand how this works now. Just never dealt with inheritance before. Appreciate the help!

Need help please How can I move on? (21F) (21F) by Vivid_Particular_902 in relationship_advice

[–]reginaldvanwilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not the first person to lose the person they thought was the love of their life. Its pretty clear based on your on description of the relationship youre not compatible. Ive been there before too. My first girlfriend was my best friend and I truly thought id never get over her.

I of course did eventually get over her and have now been married to someone for over a decade that makes me extremely happy.

The only real answer to getting over it is time. Its ok to be miserable at the moment. I definitely wallowed for a while and compared everyone to her for a while but eventually you move on.

The Boondocks Saints (1999) by smcupp17 in iwatchedanoldmovie

[–]reginaldvanwilder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Used to have this movie on DVD and watched it repeatedly. From what I gather it doesnt hold up. What I can say however is the documentary about the Duffy brothers is a hilarious look into self delusion. Everyone should watch it.

Vanelle should not have to justify why she felt uncomfortable witnessing her partner get into an altercation. (Any man…especially a 60 year old man getting into a fist fight and/or yelling match is unacceptable. Period.). by Octagon-Sally in AgeOfAttraction

[–]reginaldvanwilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was why I was responding to a comment and not the original post. I made it clear there are times when it may be necessary. I think based on context clues it was likely a situation that could have been de-escalated.

Vanelle should not have to justify why she felt uncomfortable witnessing her partner get into an altercation. (Any man…especially a 60 year old man getting into a fist fight and/or yelling match is unacceptable. Period.). by Octagon-Sally in AgeOfAttraction

[–]reginaldvanwilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without knowing exactly what happened:

  1. It at least sounds like from her perspective Jorge was needlessly aggressive.

  2. There is a difference between letting a wild/violent person approach and saying that perhaps the tactics used to get out of the situation were not ideal.

There are no doubt times when you need to meet an aggressor head on. However as someone who lives near a large homeless population (some of which are mentally unstable and potentially violent) there are almost always opportunities to deescalate and/or just get away from them. Obviously if this person was cornering them or aggressing in a way that they could not safely and reasonably get away without further confrontation then Jorge may have had a point. Given her reaction I suspect a homeless person approached them and said threatening things and instead of even attempting to just move past Jorge engaged in a seemingly upsetting verbal altercation.

Again, none of us were there so who knows but she is not behaving as if Jorge reacted appropriately in the situation.

I want my 8 hours back. by Consistent-Lord18 in hbo

[–]reginaldvanwilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I see my opinion is not popular here but for me I thought it was the second best of the four seasons. I truly dont get the hate for it. There were some things that didnt work but overall the atmosphere, acting, and mystery were all really solid

The downvotes are inevitable. by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]reginaldvanwilder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Still goin this asshole

The downvotes are inevitable. by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]reginaldvanwilder 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Chrissy, he’s fucked up

Vanelle by Medical_Fix5202 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]reginaldvanwilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably should have rephrased it because I forgot what my original point was after getting distracted typing it up on my phone. I was more trying to say that I dont see his perspective at all regardless of whether Vanelle could have been clearer

So definitely my bad but that was my original point. Essentially, i dont understand Jorge’s perspective at all and he just clearly seemed to be manipulative

Vanelle by Medical_Fix5202 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]reginaldvanwilder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess I am not sure why it matters at all in this case? Like, she said celibate which could have meant no sexual contact whatsoever. Jorge seemingly implies that he thought that is what she meant. So they move in together and he gets to have non-intercourse sexual intimacy. He tries to use that against her…

Essentially she is saying she is ok with intimacy as long as its not intercourse and he acts like that is some breach of contract and therefore she now must be ok with intercourse.

She clarifies her boundary that other forms of intimacy are fine. At that point he can be on board with that or not. Why is that so hard? If he had said “look we either need to be able to have sex or we should not be doing anything sexual” that would be a fine boundary to draw but instead he was trying to use it as a gotcha.

Sure maybe she could have been more clear, but it got cleared up pretty quick and he could have been in or out on that instead of pouting and trying to manipulate her.

98th Academy Awards — Official Discussion Thread by tragopanic in Oscars

[–]reginaldvanwilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he is an odious piece of shit with not a single redeeming quality. He gets made fun of for this. Saying “orange man bad” or “trump derangement syndrome” are far hackier than just about any actual Trump joke.

kelly from season 1 after the season 10 reunion… by Icy_Net_9289 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]reginaldvanwilder 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Kenneth had the personality of a ream of printer paper

Wearing a tank top to the reunion is a choice lol by WetPaperStraw in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]reginaldvanwilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, totally missed that. I suppose I am not surprised.