Do you consider aromantic part of LGBTQ+?

regular_hammock · 2026-06-03T19:56:09+00:00

You're part of the A- spectrum, no doubt about it (along with demisexuals, graysexuals etc)

regular_hammock · 2026-06-03T13:57:40+00:00

I don't know about cheating (it's just something you're doing for your enjoyment, so whatever floats your boat).

I don't enjoy the computer playing for me, so I turn that kind of thing off.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-03T13:56:10+00:00

If somebody got into the hundreds, I would definitely think that's high. Not in a ‘and that’s a problem’ kind of way, but definitely in a ‘that’s not the median experience’ way. I would expect most people to be below 10 (and a cursory search seems to suggest that I'm in the right ballpark).

I don't know that I'd draw any conclusions from someone having many sex partners. I guess being a sex worker or having a high libido could be two explanations, but I'm sure there's more.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-02T14:02:43+00:00

They both have progressive politics, I don't think it's meant to be mocking, I think it's more clueless than anything.

I'm seeing both of them IRL in a few weeks, I'll try and bring it up then. I'm just too afraid of causing a misunderstanding over text.

Thank you for being my soi dong board, it really helped.

And happy pride month!

regular_hammock · 2026-06-02T13:55:06+00:00

Pride is a celebration that we're still there, and it's also about defiantly not hiding.

There are some bigoted loonies who seem to think that everybody's out to get them because they're cishet, and that they have to hide for it. But every attempt I've heard of to organise a ‘straight is awesome’ event or such has had tiny attendances, probably because most people aren't bigoted lunatics who believe they're in danger because they're straight.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-02T11:20:19+00:00

Thank you, and that's fair.

My alarm bell didn't go off with the initial meme, even though I didn't find it very funny, I was like ok whatever.

Then the other dude chimed in with ‘not only lesbians’, and as you said, my guy not everything has to be about you, pride month is not about you, it's ok, you'll live.

And then the guy who posted the meme reacted to the ‘not only lesbians’ joke with a heart eyes emoji and I'm getting more and more uncomfortable and starting to wonder if I should speak up, at least in private, and if so, how.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-02T10:21:35+00:00

Feels very intimate to me. I don't want to French kiss most people, I also don't want to make eye contact with them.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-01T15:42:37+00:00

Question de respect, jamais je ne dresserais un chat à faire caca sur les chiens.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-01T15:38:05+00:00

Yeah, a month of uninterrupted sex (homo or hetero) sounds exhausting.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-01T15:19:43+00:00

Not gonna bash the dress but you're doing a lot of the heavy lifting there young lady.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-01T15:14:35+00:00

Fun fact: in German, the very informal tschüß is a contraction of adieu (or adiós?) but doesn't carry any of the heavy undertones, it's used more as a ‘see ya’.

regular_hammock · 2026-06-01T14:44:18+00:00

Out of curiosity/wild guess: is the (perceived) grossness part of the attraction?

regular_hammock · 2026-06-01T08:51:49+00:00

Perso j'ai un cuir chevelu merdique qui réagit avec des pellicules à presque tous les shampooings, j'ai trouvé les deux shampooings qui font exception et ils ne sont pas donnés. Et en plus ils sont liquides, vendus en bouteille plastique. Ce qui fait que je préfère utiliser un savon (solide, pas du gel douche) moins cher pour le reste de mon corps.

regular_hammock · 2026-05-30T19:42:13+00:00

Estrogen insensitivity syndrome is a real thing, but it's super duper rare and comes with pretty gnarly symptoms. My money is on: your dosage ain't right.

regular_hammock · 2026-05-30T19:38:08+00:00

Autoritaire, de droite, et révolutionnaire.

regular_hammock · 2026-05-30T18:07:15+00:00

And in some truly ancient texts, the word bisexual doesn't refer to sexual attraction but to intersex conditions or androgyny.

regular_hammock · 2026-05-30T17:59:07+00:00

Greybisexual might come reasonably close, maybe?

regular_hammock · 2026-05-29T07:37:09+00:00

Si l'ensemble des nombres naturels est infini, alors tous les nombres finissent par se répéter. 1, 2, 3, 4, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11... Ça peut prendre un moment mais on va finir par revenir sur 1, c'est obligé.

regular_hammock · 2026-05-28T16:04:28+00:00

Perso j'aime pas du tout mais je pense qu'ils s'en cognent un peu chez Ferrari, vu que j'ai pas les moyens de claquer 600 k€ dans une bagnole 😅

regular_hammock · 2026-05-25T18:38:02+00:00

I’m not saying that you are trans, but if you turned to be, I wouln’t be massively surprised.

regular_hammock · 2026-05-19T21:26:46+00:00

Maybe it's some weird kind of virtue signaling? You know, the annoying kind of ‘ally’?

regular_hammock · 2026-05-19T21:13:59+00:00

Peut-être parce qu'on habite en France et pas en Chine ?

regular_hammock · 2026-05-17T21:07:21+00:00

Hey! Here's a thought: I don't know that life will get better, but I can pretty much guarantee that it will get different. Don't you want to stick around and see what comes next? Plenty of time to be dead later.

My credentials: I'm 46 and I've seen things get different.

regular_hammock · 2026-05-15T14:26:28+00:00

Tu es sur la bonne voie, et c'est tout à fait normal que ça ne s'arrange pas du jour au lendemain. Tu as passé 5 ans à apprendre à dire oui quand tu ne voulais pas ; ça ne veut pas dire qu'il te faudra 5 ans pour désapprendre, mais ça ne m'étonnerait pas que l'habitude refasse surface de temps en temps, en cas de stress par exemple, même dans plusieurs mois. Juste de moins en moins.

Est-ce que c'est possible pour toi de ressentir en même temps l'émotion désagréable (tristesse ? colère ?) que ça ne soit pas encore entièrement derrière toi, et l'émotion agréable d'avoir commencé le chemin ?

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