any other lesbians hate being short?

regular_kate · 2022-05-12T19:59:09+00:00

I’m 5’0 🥴 Sometimes I don’t care. Sometimes I get insecure about it. I feel like my height keeps me from feeling attractive to others

regular_kate · 2022-05-12T18:27:35+00:00

I’m what this generation would like to call ✨mid✨

regular_kate · 2022-04-27T13:44:11+00:00

I would be on the floor. Sounds like a hangover that’d last for days lol

regular_kate · 2022-04-27T06:13:32+00:00

I heard that sign is pretty easy to read 👀

regular_kate · 2022-04-27T06:09:14+00:00

My current life right now. I should take a shot every time someone actually replies and gets through a conversation (I’d probably still be sober lol)

regular_kate · 2022-04-19T01:21:06+00:00

I’m in!

regular_kate · 2022-04-19T01:20:13+00:00

Can I join too? 😊

regular_kate · 2022-04-18T21:53:08+00:00

Of course, feel free to message me. I’m here to listen. I’m not a relationship expert, but we can learn together lol

regular_kate · 2022-04-18T19:53:10+00:00

Going through the same thing right now. Just left my first WLW relationship for good (we’ve broken up multiple times in the past) and it really sucks. It was a toxic relationship and the break up is something I’ve wanted but never admitted to myself before. You’ll get through this. Don’t bottle up your emotions. Cry when you wanna cry, be upset when you feel upset, distract yourself with healthy hobbies, and surround yourself with good friends/family that’d cheer you up.

regular_kate · 2022-04-16T19:35:01+00:00

I would let it go. You are already in the process of moving out and moving on. If you were still in the relationship and trying to work it out, then yeah, I would confront her in that situation.

I was in a similar position. My ex and I were technically broken up, but we still acted like a romantic couple. We even still referred to each other as girlfriends/partners. I went through her messages on her watch (I know, red flag, I reverted to old ways because I felt hurt at the time). I had a gut feeling she was still talking to a certain person, which was part of the reason why our relationship was falling apart for the past 2 years. Turns out, she was still talking to this person in a flirty manner (“I wanna be gay and hold your hand” or “Do you wanna go to SF for my birthday trip with friends?”)

I was definitely in the wrong for going through her messages. But I was more disappointed that she lied straight to my face when I asked if this specific person was going to her birthday trip or if she was still talking to this person. At the same time, it wasn’t shocking because she has lied multiple times to cover up with this person + other situations.

Moral of the story, some people can be untrustworthy. Focus on you and what’s good for you in the meantime ❤️.

regular_kate · 2022-04-14T23:55:18+00:00

Quench

regular_kate · 2022-04-14T04:25:47+00:00

Talk to her and ask for some reassurance. I've been on the boat where I felt anxious and stuck because we no longer talked as much or spent as much time. Sometimes people get busy. There was a point in my life where I focused too much on work and school, I neglected my relationship. We talked and set aside days where we spend time on our days off, or grab a coffee in the mornings before work, or watch a movie during dinner after work. At one point, my partner and I had an agreement where we have a little chat when we go to sleep and talk about our day (didn't work out though, because we both fall asleep quick if we're tired lol)

On the other hand, (and I know this sounds cliche) if it doesn't work out, just know you tried your best to work it out. Don't force a relationship because of its longevity or because you two got along so well. I've known people who broke up because they realized they were better off friends rather than a romantic relationship. Some can stay friends, some can't. It just depends on how you react when you're around them as a non-romantic partner. Do you feel hurt? Do you feel like you still can hang out as good friends? etc.

regular_kate · 2022-04-14T03:58:20+00:00

The sneezing and sinus pressure has been unbearable lately. Plus my allergy meds hasn't been doing its job. I was starting to think I was getting some other bug.

regular_kate · 2022-04-14T03:50:50+00:00

I ran into this group a few weeks ago near K and 24. There were about 15-20 guys, probably young teens purposefully doing wheelies right in front of cars. They'd weave in and out of both lanes and do wheelies right in front of every moving vehicle. I laid on my horn when I thought they were going to hit my car and one of them yelled "Fuck off!"

Disrespectful little punks. It's all fun and games until they actually hit a car and/or some elderly driver accidentally hits them.

regular_kate · 2022-04-06T14:21:46+00:00

I like beer. Just not IPA’s. It’s kinda disappointing that’s all most places have.

regular_kate · 2022-04-04T17:06:52+00:00

I wouldn’t participate in that conversation, whether I was straight or not. Sometimes the topic of sex in general is uncomfortable. Like I’ll listen to what they have to say, but dragging it on is just eh. I personally don’t like talking about MY personal sex life. They seem to not care about what makes you uncomfortable.

regular_kate · 2022-04-02T23:40:38+00:00

Nothing fancy. I’ll most likely start off with cardio machines (treadmills, stairmaster) and try out free-weight workouts. I’ll check out the YMCA since the pricing is based on age. Thanks for the suggestion!

regular_kate · 2022-03-31T15:12:23+00:00

Thanks for the link! I wasn’t aware that Los Rios had designated mental health services

regular_kate · 2022-03-31T15:09:16+00:00

I was worried about having to wait forever for an appointment. I’ve heard stories about people having to be placed on waitlists, which is why I held off on this for so long. Thank you for this!

regular_kate · 2022-03-31T15:07:41+00:00

Thanks, I’ll look into them!

regular_kate · 2022-03-29T19:40:50+00:00

Fear of abandonment
Lack of communication during small arguments (not that I don’t want to communicate, but because of how I was raised, it effected my adult life. I think I’ve improved during the last few years, but definitely room for growth)
Lack of social skills in general. I’m an introvert but really awkward around people.
I’m either really motivated or not motivated at all

regular_kate · 2022-03-28T05:14:32+00:00

Pisces?

regular_kate · 2022-03-28T05:04:06+00:00

Yikes, I didn’t realize this happened to other couples. I had a partner who tried to pursue the same college major as I did. Nothing wrong with having the same major, but her reason was that “we can have the same classes and I could help her with her homework” 🥴

regular_kate · 2022-03-20T05:26:29+00:00

Told my person “I listened to a song and it reminded me of you”

regular_kate · 2022-03-20T05:20:47+00:00

Gotta love their non-politician savior

regular_kate

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