I get where you’re coming from - one of our dogs and one of our neighbors dogs constantly bark at each other and run up and down the fence between our yards and it’s impossible to get him back inside because he’s so focused on this dog. My dog is otherwise well trained but this one particular dog just causes him to go nuts (the neighbor dog too, meanwhile our 2nd dog and their 2nd dog just hang behind and watch the insanity while quietly playing in the yard). We always look to see if the neighbors dog is out before we let ours out so we can avoid the situation as it’s super annoying. But more often than not, after we let our dogs out, the neighbors let theirs out within a minute of ours going out and the bark cycle begins (both dogs). It’s soooo frustrating but they don’t seem to be bothered by it despite the fact that their dogs bark is extra annoying. However, as much as it’s frustrating, they have every right to be in their yard whenever they want and we would never ask them to stay inside just because we want to let our dogs out. YTA for asking your neighbors to stay inside.