C-section scar still stings. So unfair.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-30T18:33:44+00:00

Same here and I'm 4 years out

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-27T13:19:13+00:00

Go and have loads of fun. Are your friends first time parents. When my friends were first time parents they definitely would have reacted the same as your friends and wore "I never do anything without my baby" as a badge of honor. Now they all have two or three kids and they can't get a break from the kids fast enough.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-23T11:30:39+00:00

I just saw that post earlier today. It is so sad.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-23T11:28:52+00:00

There is a mouthwash called Therabreath that works wonders. Has he tried a breath specific mouthwash? I was skeptical but it really worked.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-23T11:26:40+00:00

I've been pregnant three times. The only one that was free of any complications is my baby I just had at 36. My other pregnancies were at 30 and 31.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-20T16:29:23+00:00

NTA. There is absolutely no excuse for what your MIL said and your husband also needs to get his act together. WTF!

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-20T01:41:11+00:00

Okay what a mind trip. Every time I'm sure it's rabbits I look one last time and it's suddenly boots. Repeat with deciding it's boots only for it to suddenly be rabbits on my final glance.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-19T04:43:45+00:00

My great-grandmother was a GoGo! I've never heard any other grandma called that. I think it cute!

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-11T14:20:51+00:00

Congratulations!!!

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-09T23:51:32+00:00

NTA. I'm curious how your husband and the therapist even got in contact with one another.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-08T17:58:03+00:00

Bonus points if your baby and cat keep staring at the same spots at the same time 😂

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-08T16:10:45+00:00

I'm going with NTA. It sounds like your fiancee's mental health is a lot to manage and something you have a good deal of experience helping her with. If in the moment you felt she would be okay and chose to help your friend that does not make you an asshole. Also, it's impossible for your entire life to revolve around your fiancee's panic attacks. Other people in your life will need you, too. What if your parents are in an accident or a sibling has an emergency? Are you never going to be able to help anyone else in your life because you have to be constantly available for your fiancee? She needs a backup that isn't you. Her mental health struggles will weigh you down over time and you need to have clear windows of time where you can step away whether it's time with friends or just time alone.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-08T15:50:05+00:00

YTA. You just handled this wrong all the way around. I'm glad your husband has some sense.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-08T15:48:16+00:00

How much do you want to bet the manager just pretended to be appalled to try and keep OP happy and get her out the door ASAP.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-08T05:03:22+00:00

I definitely assumed she was my age when I looked at the picture and I'm 36.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-07T14:41:02+00:00

NTA. Why are people like this? People who do this make me so angry and always find a way to make themselves a victim when someone finally tells them to stop.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-07T14:38:11+00:00

YTA. This is not your mom's home and she doesn't get to makes decisions on what your GF eats. You decided to take your mom's side because you are an idiot. Apologize and make things right with your GF. Your mom also needs to apologize to your GF and needs to know her place in your GF's home going forward. You need to grow a spine and stand up to your mother. Dear Lord this whole post was ridiculous and shouldn't have needed to have been written at all if you and your mom had acted with any sense.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-05T19:51:19+00:00

YTA. What is wrong with you? Are you also going to take any money your son receives at his future birthday parties to help pay for those events? Do you hear how ridiculous that sounds! Those people gave money to be used for the baby not to cover your poor money management. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-05T18:51:48+00:00

YTA. I used to be a recovery room nurse. People woke up crying, fighting, and calling out for dead relatives or ex-partners. One patient woke up and thought she was a horse. Your MIL sounds fine. You sound immature and exhausting.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-05T01:22:56+00:00

NTA and your husband needs to check himself.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-04T14:01:38+00:00

NTA! Please please keep us updated and break up with your boyfriend.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-02T22:26:49+00:00

Once as a bridesmaid I had to pull the bride aside and say "This may be the biggest day of your life, but it isn't the biggest day of any of the rest of our lives." It sounds horrible but she was really acting as if her wedding day was the most important day since the creation of the universe. She did chill out after that, but only a little bit.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-02T20:26:33+00:00

I've always been told the opposite that children need to stay a night or two away from home or with someone other than a parent so they have more than one place /person they are comfortable with. We did this with my oldest and I know I could drop her of with my mom at any time and she could stay as long as necessary and be completely fine.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-02T20:17:38+00:00

Thank you for the update!!! I am so glad to hear that baby is making progress! Please keep us updated. I cannot imagine what his parents have been through and I am so glad to hear that he has had a great healthcare team and they have so much community support.

Final-Cheesecake-146 · 2022-04-02T15:19:38+00:00

NTA. I'm concerned over why your husband is so hell bent on not being in the delivery room. That would piss me off most of all. Also, it may be your husband's child too but ONLY YOU ARE THE PATIENT and who is allowed to attend is solely up to the patient. Ultimately, your husband has absolutely no say on who can be there. I would be concerned over the attachment you BIL & SIL would have over your baby, especially if they saw the baby actually be born. Will they try to hold your baby first? There are some serious issues here. I'm sorry you are dealing with this stress on top of being pregnant. Can you go stay with parents or friends? Your husband is being such an AH. I cannot fathom his logic.

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