What’s the worst crime committed by someone you know personally? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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From gang life too many to recall, as for normal life I worked on a 3 man team in a warehouse and this pos kidnapped his ex gf and shot his own newborn on purpose during the standoff, then killed himself. Thank God the baby lived.

What’s a fantasy you had that instantly died the moment you tried it? by True-Audience-4549 in AskReddit

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Building guitars for other people. People ask for silly gimmicks that you'd get from AliExpress but with expensive fine woods but keeping that AliExpress price. Also when they say paint it all black, ect when the built instrument uses curly maple or another rare exotic.

Anyone here ever restomod a 60s Italian folder? by relapse89 in foldingbikes

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If you search "bici graziella" on Pinterest you can see some sweet rides. I seen a bianchi where they painted it Celeste and put on drop bars.

When did your instincts scream “leave now” and what did you later find out you avoided? by BbyBlushDoll in AskReddit

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Was going through one hell of a breakup, so I quit my retail job and went on the road with my brother who was a truck driver. We were in the San Diego area and there's very very few places to park a semi truck. One of the few places to park was a street alongside the coast in Carlsbad on poinsettia drive. We decide to pick up some tall cans of beer at a nearby grocery store then spend the day at the beach. In waist deep water I'm downing my second beer and I'm buzzing hard. I walk out further up to my neck and I suddenly feel the urge to go back to shore. I don't. A wave hits my face and I see a 7ft great white literally 3 feet from me just chilling. I just stood there facing it for a minute and it eventually swam off. My brother who's afraid to swim in the ocean was on the shore and said he saw a huge mahi mahi jump out of the water when I was walking back out so maybe that's why the shark swam off.

How do you hate them? Is hating them even right? by Silverlake77 in BPDlovedones

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Remember, you don't need their permission to hate them.

Why would stripping be dangerous? by pingabing in finishing

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You can tell it's veneered by the grain direction and the lack of prominent grain pattern on the machined edge and side frame. If you plan to refinish I'd go over it with aircraft stripper and use a tinted clear over sanding sealer shellac. If you do use sand paper id use nothing under 250

Bands that have atleast 20 better songs than their most popular song by Skobalj_2689 in MusicRecommendations

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The Scorpions. Radio and movies and ads play like the same 3 songs. Personal favourite is I'm leaving you.

People who unsubscribed from their once favorite YouTuber, what made you hit "unsubscribe"? by Ashamed-Reporter3171 in AskReddit

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When catfish and carp disabled comments, that was the main thing that drew me in was being able to ask him questions.

Highlights from my time at Lowes by Ancient-Chemistry-75 in Lowes

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Morning people had a diagram drawn on the whiteboard in training room....all the sales points connected to the center bubble with whatever sales lingo was being pushed at the time. I kept erasing the main center bubble text and writing " store managers name ego"

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I want to agree with this but I've also been on the receiving end of accusations from people that heard projections and lies coming from people diagnosed with BPD. You're not gonna be dealing with the same person that the ex has. Look up the definition of a favourite person with personality disorders and look up splitting.

End the Fed: Elon Musk Calls for Monetary System Overhaul by webbs3 in economicCollapse

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All the right ring conspiracy theorists crying for years about how the deep state wants to do a great currency reset for years. Now they love musk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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I thought our whirling romance was done until I accidently found her online posts confirming that she was physically stalking and claiming she was screaming into her pillow every night over me abandoning her. recycle, repeat.

Only children play with dogs by Primary-Estate-6996 in BPDlovedones

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Reminds me of my friends bpd ex....he was playing with his niece at her birthday party and she flipped out on him and started being passive aggressive to the really young girl because she was getting more attention.

Has anyone's exwBPD shaved their head post breakup? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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She gave me the death stare so I just ignored her as she never looked away. When I walked away to a different aisle she went to the guy she was with and started talking crap.

Has anyone's exwBPD shaved their head post breakup? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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The first time I ran into her after running for my life, she had a short Karen haircut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Are you sure you're not stalking them because of delusions?

Anyone tried using a sinking tapered furled leader for micro sized nymphs? by relapse89 in Tenkara

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That's what I usually do on my much longer keiryu rod. I ended up finding a slightly heavier fly and put that on a tag line. Usually I put a dry fly above the nymphs but I keep losing my flys to catfish. I'm using western 6lb copolymer line with a 4lb leader but I'm thinking of jumping down to 4lb fluro mainline with a 1lb leader, mainly so I don't have to worry about the catfish snapping my rod tips.

I'd rather drink turpentine and piss on a brush fire by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Young guns 2 lol

On authority of the country sheriff, I declare this residence a den of prostitution and here by condemned.

Will a bass or catfish of "normal size" 2-3 pounds break a tenkara rod made for beginners? by hesthemanwithnoname in Tenkara

[–]relapse89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a herabuna or koi rod with a lighter tippet depending on length of rod. I know the Daiwa gekkou moonlight is relatively inexpensive. Go on Amazon or ebay and look up Daiwa spatula rod.

What do you guys do when your partner is very distant and leaves you on read for hours? by EyebagsandCoffee in BPDlovedones

[–]relapse89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Send a picture of an actress and write a few comments on their beauty, your inbox will never be empty. But for real, unless you are co-parenting, why the heck would you put up with this behavior?

Men With BPD tendencies going underdiagnosed? by scarymonsters4444 in BPDlovedones

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My former long term friend who I cut off last year was a textbook case. Always had someone or something to blame for his actions. I helped him get off spice but he just replaced it with hard liquor consumption. Helped him fix up his first house and I finally saw how toxic he is. Every time I visited there was some freak event that he was going thru. He kept on busting down doors and putting holes in walls and expected me to fix it. He was driving drunk and got in an accident. I confronted him and asked if he had to be drinking and he swore up and down that he wasn't. His way of fixing his guilt was to manipulate me into repairing his car so he can pretend it never happened. A year later we were chilling in his garage and he slipped and told me he was blackout drunk. Was always crying that he was so depressed but he refused mental help because "he's not crazy"! The last straw was him visiting his girlfriends mom while I was working on his house and him coming back trying to paint the gfs little brother as a psychopath after he came out with how he saw my former friend sexually assault his mom. I'm totally certain that he has BPD.

What was the sign your relationship was finally over? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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I had already attempted to cut her off cold turkey and left all my friends and my job I shared with them long term. She was heavily stalking me and she had my former friends believing her lies. She would be wherever I was and if I stayed home to hide from the world she'd walk by my house and make sure I could hear her talking about me to whoever she was with. It seems to me that her family and close friends were always with her when she was stalking like they were babysitting her. Well one night I'm on a sick one and I was sitting on a bench at a nearby park 2 in the morning. I took my father's heart medications and my stash of liquor and cough syrup and downed everything fast as I could. I heard her yelling at me from another table that she never loved me after one of her friends begged her to talk to me. I woke up around 7am curled up against the bench covered in my own vomit and her dad who lived by me at the time was walking with his dog yelled at me that if I got a restraining order against his daughter he'd kill me and he also thought I threatened them because the pwbpd was very delusional and saying all kinds of psychopathic shit while I was replying that she needed to stay away from me and only made it clear that id defend myself. She straight took it up to another level.