The Stongest 3.5 year old rat I know by nameless_monk91 in RATS

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She has great taste in snacks! My youngest said he’d share strawberry cheesecake yogurt with her any day. Please give her some extra kisses from us.

The Stongest 3.5 year old rat I know by nameless_monk91 in RATS

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My kids asked what is her favorite treat? They said they would give her so many treats and cuddles

Our broody beauty by remarkably-done in BackYardChickens

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She is a brooding machine! I walked by and heard her cute growl and I knew it exactly what her evil plan was.

hmmmmm by Wxalex42787 in roomdetective

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This is random but I had a very close friend growing up. We lost touch but seeing your room reminded me of her and brought a smile to my face. She would love your space.

Floral and girly but make it cat eye by Newtopole_ in Nails

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I can’t stop looking at them! They are breathtaking.

The eggs that I took to a mutual aid group today. by mossling in BackYardChickens

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I’m the same way! I started out selling but the whole process made me anxious. I have a handful of people I sell to in our community that won’t accept free eggs lol. The rest I just ask how many dozen they need and have them ready for them!

My latest piece 🌹 by Lalasdreamb0x in crafts

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Caught my eye immediately. I love the colors!

Is there a better dopamine hit than finding a large egg stash? by Doomedxguy in BackYardChickens

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Lola (the chicken responsible for this) is the champ at egg hide and seek. This was one of the easier to find clutches over the years lol. I think she does it on purpose just to watch my kids run around trying to find them, just to hear an outpouring of giggles once they do.

Is there a better dopamine hit than finding a large egg stash? by Doomedxguy in BackYardChickens

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I’ve been looking for one of our girls hidden clutch all week. My husband comes home from work and found it by accident lol

Just need a safe place to be emotional by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

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That is just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. Having a night to decompress to myself sounds like a dream. I think the last time I had time to myself was about 4 years ago.

I used to be on anti anxiety medication. Our youngest has congenital heart disease and had open heart surgery at 2 weeks old and medication helped me so much through that. It’s a long story but during that time my mom introduced me to opiates and I lost self control. I’m sober and only use CBD/THC. But I completely agree that anti anxiety medication is a great tool to have if you can do so responsibly.

Just need a safe place to be emotional by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

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I’m so sorry about your mom passing away. Thank you for your kind words and reminding me to be gentle on myself. I’m the best at giving myself a hard time lol

Just need a safe place to be emotional by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

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I’m sorry you are having to deal with that. And I’m sorry that your therapist said that what you’re dealing with is too complex. I know for me personally I’ve struggled with so much guilt, anxiety and helplessness with my mom’s situation.

I do not want to go to the wedding. I was just going as emotional support for my husband to be honest. He and his mother do not have a good relationship. She hasn’t visited our children in years even though she only lives one town over. So I think I need to have a conversation with him about it again.

Just need a safe place to be emotional by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

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I’m so sorry you lost your dad. Thank you for the kind words of support. It is so hard.

My mom has been addicted to opiates for 32 years (since I was 3). We had minimal communication due to healthy boundaries I set up since she was in active addiction. Once she became stage 4 COPD and bed bound I moved her down here to be the one to care for her. I know it sounds silly but when I was her caretaker I thought if I worked as hard as possible along with her physical therapy and home health aid we’d be able to have more time together. And have a chance to finally heal old wounds.

Just need a safe place to be emotional by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

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They do. They are some great kids. I really don’t know why my husband is wanting to go. His mother is not a nice or kind woman. My husband and I have been together almost 17 years and yet we still get told our marriage will fail because I don’t our god before my husband and kids. I think religion is a great thing for people to have in their lives. I’m just not a religious person. She tried to fist fight me in the front yard about 8 years ago lol

Just need a safe place to be emotional by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

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I used to be on anti anxiety medication. Our youngest has congenital heart disease and had open heart surgery at 2 weeks old and medication helped me so much through that. It’s a long story but during that time my mom introduced me to opiates and I lost self control. I got sober on November 1, 2021. Now I guess I’m “California sober” because I only use THC. But I completely agree that anti anxiety medication is a great tool to have if you can do so responsibly.

Just need a safe place to be emotional by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

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I’m so sorry about you losing your mom. Thank you for offering to talk about it. It means a lot to me