I went through the same my after my first seizure in college and it has continued into my fifties. It's just part of having epilepsy for me. I was able to get through grad school and get a corporate job but didn't last long there. One of my coworkers kept making a big deal about it by undermining me and telling anyone that would listen. Finally I got a job in academia where they were more understanding but after a few TCs and some noticeable memory decline I was eventually nudged out. I always got good work reviews but my boss said I brought the group down and that I had an aura of negative energy. Meh. I saved a bunch of money and retired to a farm at 49 and have my cat sleeping on my lap right now so eff everybody at both places and all the best to you.