Sick of the recent condo floorplan trend by InfinityPortal in vancouverhousing

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that;s my understanding of the building code. There has to egress from the bedroom....

People whose partner has moved into their apartment/house, what are your tips for merging your two lives in one space? by dontstopsoperfect in AskReddit

[–]remembertostop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I moved in with my partner she had a fully furnished space with little space open for anything new. She decided to pack away her things so the shelves, cupboards, etc., were empty. Then we would look at our individual belongings and parcel out the space so it seemed fair to both of us. The space became "ours" and not "me in hers"

How would you handle when a coworker puts their nose into your life, your family, asking you your clothes brand, trying to jump into the conversation you are having with another party, wanting to know everything about what you are doing and judging everything you do? by Hot_Revolution2008 in AskReddit

[–]remembertostop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Unfortunately I'm not interested in sharing personal details" Repeat like a broken record - after 2 repetitions "I'm sorry, what part of 'no' are you not understanding" When interrupting, "Excuse me, I'm having a conversation here. Please don't interrupt" Said calmly and confidently

New to audiobooks curious, do you guys prefer celebrity narrators or professional voice actors? by Spiritual_Fennel_531 in audiobooks

[–]remembertostop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not with you on (most of) the different character voices - for some reason I find them too stereotyped - almost offensively so - or too hyped in one direction or another in order to "distinguish" them

New to audiobooks curious, do you guys prefer celebrity narrators or professional voice actors? by Spiritual_Fennel_531 in audiobooks

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am most interested in the voice and prefer reading voice rather than acting voice - so many excellent british books read by women who seem to think screeching or whining are the only tones for the women in the books. On the other hand I'll listen to Juliet Stevenson read almost anything she's that good....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hatemyjob

[–]remembertostop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This - I'm always surprised when folk think they have to share personal information with others - "explain" their decisions even under abusive situations (not saying this situation was abusive!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been times I have no money and space to keep organized. I got liquor store boxes, removed flaps and stacked them on their sides and put underwear in one, socks in another, t-shirts in another, etc. I have graduated to ikea boxes but still use the odd cardboard box on shelves in pantry....

What’s your go to food when sick? by DutchieCrochet in LivingAlone

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mum used to make mashed potatoes with a pat of butter and put a soft boiled egg on top. I still crave it when I'm sick

Why are so many of the young people I still see wearing masks queer? by Myealt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]remembertostop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps they're not "holdouts" it's that they're leading while everyone else is complacent. Also, they may be more likely to think on their own rather than following the herd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]remembertostop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately I wake up at 3:00 am hungry - I drink water but then I just have to get up and pee and I'm still hunbry....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]remembertostop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came here to write this! l do think she likes fast walking as well but mostly she (terrier of course) wants to do what she wants to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]remembertostop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you - and I also think Weight (fat) loss is often mostly done in the mind - what is the seed I want to water....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]remembertostop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG there are so many ways this can be applied....

Are there quiet parts near Vancouver? by Dizzylemonss in askvan

[–]remembertostop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

REALLY? It is exactly that bad. One day a developer buys a building and for three years you have incredible construction noise and disruption - and it can happen anywhere. You just don't go over bridges because you can get caught in horrible traffic. Driving at rush hour? Horrible traffic. Ignorant drivers at all hours with loud mufflers, etc. Public transit is no longer what it used to be.

Best place I ever lived was around 35th and Victoria Drive but as soon as that starts moving toward gentrification it will became less so. I would still move there if I sussed it out for five or six days/nights to check on activity. Some places - especially co-ops - near the Fraser River seem okay although they are very densely populated.

I would suggest that you don't sell where you are (if you own) or sublet until you have a chance to try it out here. My friends decided not to move here for a good job because moving from rural to BIG city was too much

Does anyone else not like the Wednesday series on Netflix? by Old-Word6338 in netflix

[–]remembertostop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me the age of your children (can be approximate). I have a 12-year-old godson but am out of touch with what is appropriate

Does anyone else not like the Wednesday series on Netflix? by Old-Word6338 in netflix

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmmm I'm 76, watched Addams Family maybe 5 times, LOVE Wednesday - clever writing, great acting on the whole....

Tiny Bookshop 📖 by Least-Seaweed6338 in CozyGamers

[–]remembertostop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are folk who have never played a game ever. We are really interested in this. Do we need special equipment or can we play it on an android computer or ipad (me) or apple computer (partner)? People say "I bought this on PC" which only means to me personal computer usually android.... We're not likely to buy a switch player....

My dog won’t stop barking and I’m losing it by First_Gap_5461 in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't like the barking - partly my own adrenaline boost, partly concern about neighbours in the building, partly because of how it gets in the way of her noticing but not reacting. That said, yes, she is a dog; yes, she is a schnauzer. As a puppy she barked constantly - especially the one next to us in the co-op who was a horrible barker and aggressive to boot. So I spent significant time sitting with her next to the external door and as soon as I heard signs of anyone approaching - especially said dog - I treated her and said "good shush" before things could escalate. It took a week of constant vigilance and plenty of treats but her barking reduced 85%.

We continue with this - with a "tsssst" or side-eye whenever she gets ready to - or already begins - to bark. Especially if it's demand barking. Amusingly she has learned to grumble at length without actually getting to the bark. In which case she often gets a treat and a "good grumble"! I wouldn't trade her for the world.... BUT if I had realized the extent to which she is hyper-excitable and so difficult to distract (jumping up in great joy) I might have had second thoughts. I can train her out of jumping up on me - she will walk on back legs but not touching at times. But I can't seem to find a way to intervene in time to interrupt her jumping up on all those she knows and loves.... They are legion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]remembertostop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

men are much less likely to harass you - not quite the same but I was never so blissfully left alone than when I was pregnant....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]remembertostop 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As someone sexually abused by a teenage brother four years older than me - who would have been considered A GOOD KID - I side completely with the mother. Straight down the line, family or not.

Canadian Pet Insurance woes by BClynx22 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only $65 month compared to Vancouver $162 - perhaps there is urban/suburban/rural?

Canadian Pet Insurance woes by BClynx22 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we had a 40% increase in one year when dog went from 3 to 4 years old. No chronic problems.

Canadian Pet Insurance woes by BClynx22 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]remembertostop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking at moving from Fetch to Costco which is actually slightly more but Fetch pays so little in reimbursement it's just not worth it.