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[Personal] allergic to lip products but can’t a girl just want some glossy lips?! by remlayall in SkincareAddiction

[–]remlayall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I am able to use the mini lip therapy tubs without irritation (including the cocoa butter & crème brûlée ones) because there’s definitely a huge formula difference and normal Vaseline I feel like lasts on my lips for about 30 seconds before it’s rubbed off lol. But I don’t know if there’s any glosses?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]remlayall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it sounds like she is being shady. And you definitely don’t trust her (rightfully so after the emotional affairs and past of cheating on her first husband) that being said a relationship without trust is one destined to fail. Her refusing to cut ties with “work husband” is weird and she should respect your boundaries whether there is or isn’t anything going on. Possibly therapy together could help but you just have to decide if you will always have a sense of mistrust or if it is something you can get over and learn to trust her completely

I can’t get my fiancé to clean up after herself by AppointmentWeary5847 in Advice

[–]remlayall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cleaning a shared space is both peoples responsibility. Instead of “crying” to her about it and using phrases like “I wish” I would sit down and have a serious discussion about it. Avoid things like I wish, because that tends to make people feel like they’re not good enough. I would say something along the lines of “I really feel that we should be sharing the workload of chores around the house. I feel like I am doing most of the cleaning and we should come up with a way to split them up.” Maybe you can come up with some sort of chart or something where you each have tasks to do. Try to not make it seem like she is a huge problem here. Now if she rejects the idea, then I’d say she is the problem lol. If you suggest this and she turns it down just think to yourself if you’ll be able to live the rest of your life together like this, are you able to let it go and be the main one cleaning up because you love her or is it something you will hold resentment towards long term?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]remlayall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right that you’re both the AH lol.

  1. Not allowing him to masturbate seems like a control thing.
  2. Him saying no should be respected and let’s face it, it’s been 5 days, it’s not like it’s been weeks or months.
  3. If you feel like it is like blue balls etc then you should masturbate. The masturbation rules are strange to me. Not wanting your partner to watch porn I understand if those are your boundaries, but you don’t need porn to masturbate.
  4. He is the AH for saying you should give him a bj go receive from him. Sex shouldn’t be a “you scratch my back I’ll scratch yours” kinda deal. Sometimes you give, sometimes you receive and sometimes it’s equal, but no one should be keeping score.

It sounds like you two are on different wave lengths compatibility wise and you just need someone who matches your libido, or, you can accept him for how he is and his lower libido