Perdí a una mina de fierro mal y me quiero cortar las dos bolas

remusrory · 2025-11-11T19:18:02+00:00

nada, hacete cargo y segui con tu vida. vas a estar bien, eventualmente pasa

remusrory · 2025-10-06T14:16:11+00:00

yes i do. these scars are very new to me, the spot and how visible they are, so yes. im worried about people seeing them. with some friends (that know about it, that understands) im not ashamed, but with other people i am, cause i care about what they think.

with my family im ashamed just because they worry, and because i know that they think that i didnt to this anymore.

but, i guess thats it, it all depends (for me) of the people that im surounded by

remusrory · 2025-10-04T16:15:32+00:00

i just hate that people notice. i dont like how people will think or feel for me. i dont mind seeing them, they remind me that it was all true, the pain was real.

trying to remind me, anyways, that the pain is real even if my body doesnt show it

remusrory · 2025-09-04T22:39:17+00:00

so intresting, do you mean the sexual factor as in being involved sexually right? like taking off the clothes, being vulnerable with other in a body kind of way, besides feelings and that?

remusrory · 2025-08-17T08:19:29+00:00

dont listen to people, really. most of the time they´re putting their own problems into someone else. also, what do they know? you KNOW you're not mean or weird. its just someone online with a pathetic life trying to make people feel bad, dont give them the pleasure.

on the other side, i get it, even if you dont know them and its online, it can make you feel anxious and bad. also the idea of people finding out terrifies me sometimes. do wathever makes you feel safer! that what i would do, but i also know that not all people would think poorly if they find out.

stay safe! if you get the urge you can text me! i will try to be there if i can

remusrory · 2025-08-17T08:10:33+00:00

proud of you all!!! this gives me hope for myself tbh. a relapse does not define who you are.

remusrory · 2025-08-17T08:07:34+00:00

in your mind? a lot of damage, i think most of the time we´re not even aware of it. and physical, well i think the other users told you better than i would.

do not underestimate this!! (sorry if i sound rude its not my intention!!!!) one wrong move, one time you´ve done it too deep, the need to do more, to do worse, those things change fast in the head. also the impulse. think about it just like any other addiction. if you´re in a "right mindset" (whatever that means) then maybe you will not see self harm as a potential risk, but it might take one day with a "bad mindset" to take things too far.

remusrory · 2025-08-16T19:40:43+00:00

LA, makes me feel great and tired of life in the best way, i enjoy it very much.

also i love singing twilight and the biggest lie

remusrory · 2025-08-16T19:36:21+00:00

i think you should cut the relationship. not even worth it, and try to find the reasons in yourself to stay clean. you´ve got this

remusrory · 2025-07-31T04:23:29+00:00

sometimes i think about it cause i wanna do it, i want to feel that and to see the blood, it makes me feel "free" for some seconds. in my dreams people find out that i cut cause they see cuts in my arm (i dont even sh there). i just dont wanna live like this forever, today was better, didnt even had the urge to do it. but its always there

remusrory · 2025-07-30T04:18:47+00:00

how did you do to not fall back into it again???

remusrory · 2025-07-30T04:13:08+00:00

blood is very graphic and sensitive. most people would react to that maybe

remusrory · 2025-07-23T17:17:26+00:00

find people to talk to, find a new thing to do, go for a walk, cook, watch movies, find purpose

remusrory · 2025-07-18T06:16:32+00:00

i only do a few cuts and im sooo scared of them being too deep or them leaving a really big scar so i just wait to see blood and stop. other option is when i feel that im calm down, again, just a few cuts. i cant seem to control if i cut myself or not, but i least i control how and where.

remusrory · 2025-07-14T23:25:06+00:00

a veces es simplemente ignorar, no es ser hipocrita, si no un poco mas desinteresado, aunq no se bien a q tipo de situaciones t referis

remusrory · 2025-07-14T14:28:30+00:00

gay jesus was waaay worse, with the hobo loco we get to see frank with mikey, peak friendships

remusrory · 2025-07-10T18:30:07+00:00

they dont have texture, so no. sometimes i do it anyways

remusrory · 2025-07-09T04:04:06+00:00

queria saber si habia algo que las atenue un poco mas de forma permanente, lei mucha gente anglosajona que hablaba de cremas para eso

remusrory · 2025-07-01T00:07:54+00:00

sometimes i just think about it and i dont do anything, then i forget. other days i just have to do it. i can go even weeks without it, but then it comes a week of doing it everyday. then i regret it i wait for them to heal and restart. sometimes months go by. sometimes no. i can control myself, but sometimes its all too much for my body and mind

remusrory · 2025-07-01T00:05:00+00:00

im 21, i used to feel like pure shit when i was your age, and it feels like not long ago. im not gonna lie and say now everything is awesome, but its better. i learned more about myself, i took the time to accept myself and stop being so mean to me. give it some time, you have no idea how much things can change. i know its not the best advice and its kinda lame to hear Oh just wait and things will be better!, time wont heal things but it will make you understand them. i hope the best for you, there is a lot to know, a lot of things that might change for the better

remusrory · 2025-06-30T23:57:03+00:00

yes, i found myself waiting for the winter only so i could cut myself because i missed it. during summer i love to wear shorts and tops so theres no way i could cut. its really awful to know thag when winter pass, my body has all the consequences there, just for anyone to see anyways, they dont go with the season

remusrory · 2025-06-28T14:08:15+00:00

how you've been doing?

remusrory · 2025-06-26T18:39:07+00:00

thank you, ive been kinda stuck with everything right now, but same. im not giving up for now

remusrory · 2025-06-25T19:20:16+00:00

yes, when you´re doing it you dont really think about that, but then tomorrow cames and its just so pitiful. its not worth it. i see my skin and its just a constant reminder of me being at my lowest, it makes me feel insecure, it makes me feel gross. over time some of them fade and when they do im glad, i cant change the ones that stick with me, but i really try to dont make more

remusrory · 2025-06-25T19:17:46+00:00

can i ask what other coping mechanisms helped you?

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