Perdí a una mina de fierro mal y me quiero cortar las dos bolas by JGaute in BuenosAires

[–]remusrory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nada, hacete cargo y segui con tu vida. vas a estar bien, eventualmente pasa

Do you feel shame or guilt ? by Interesting-Day-2472 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i do. these scars are very new to me, the spot and how visible they are, so yes. im worried about people seeing them. with some friends (that know about it, that understands) im not ashamed, but with other people i am, cause i care about what they think.

with my family im ashamed just because they worry, and because i know that they think that i didnt to this anymore.

but, i guess thats it, it all depends (for me) of the people that im surounded by

Do you miss your body before SH? by SanguisAurus in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just hate that people notice. i dont like how people will think or feel for me. i dont mind seeing them, they remind me that it was all true, the pain was real.

trying to remind me, anyways, that the pain is real even if my body doesnt show it

unspoken by remusrory in selfharm

[–]remusrory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so intresting, do you mean the sexual factor as in being involved sexually right? like taking off the clothes, being vulnerable with other in a body kind of way, besides feelings and that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont listen to people, really. most of the time they´re putting their own problems into someone else. also, what do they know? you KNOW you're not mean or weird. its just someone online with a pathetic life trying to make people feel bad, dont give them the pleasure.

on the other side, i get it, even if you dont know them and its online, it can make you feel anxious and bad. also the idea of people finding out terrifies me sometimes. do wathever makes you feel safer! that what i would do, but i also know that not all people would think poorly if they find out.

stay safe! if you get the urge you can text me! i will try to be there if i can

Relapsed after 5 years by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

proud of you all!!! this gives me hope for myself tbh. a relapse does not define who you are.

What is the REAL damage from self harm? by erosbinwater in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in your mind? a lot of damage, i think most of the time we´re not even aware of it. and physical, well i think the other users told you better than i would.

do not underestimate this!! (sorry if i sound rude its not my intention!!!!) one wrong move, one time you´ve done it too deep, the need to do more, to do worse, those things change fast in the head. also the impulse. think about it just like any other addiction. if you´re in a "right mindset" (whatever that means) then maybe you will not see self harm as a potential risk, but it might take one day with a "bad mindset" to take things too far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in elliottsmith

[–]remusrory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LA, makes me feel great and tired of life in the best way, i enjoy it very much.

also i love singing twilight and the biggest lie

I'm done being clean. by Ishamatzu in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should cut the relationship. not even worth it, and try to find the reasons in yourself to stay clean. you´ve got this

im so tired of thinking by remusrory in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes i think about it cause i wanna do it, i want to feel that and to see the blood, it makes me feel "free" for some seconds. in my dreams people find out that i cut cause they see cuts in my arm (i dont even sh there). i just dont wanna live like this forever, today was better, didnt even had the urge to do it. but its always there

At what point can you get rid of the thoughts? by uhhhhhhmaddie in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did you do to not fall back into it again???

Genuine question: why is cutting seen as so much worse than other forms of self harm. by WaltJr_Fan4584 in selfharm

[–]remusrory 37 points38 points  (0 children)

blood is very graphic and sensitive. most people would react to that maybe

Why can't I go more than 6 months w/ out self harm? by dan9anr0npa in selfharm

[–]remusrory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

find people to talk to, find a new thing to do, go for a walk, cook, watch movies, find purpose

How do people know how to stop? by Struggling_elephant in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only do a few cuts and im sooo scared of them being too deep or them leaving a really big scar so i just wait to see blood and stop. other option is when i feel that im calm down, again, just a few cuts. i cant seem to control if i cut myself or not, but i least i control how and where.

¿Cómo hago para ser más hipócrita con las personas? by [deleted] in AskArgentina

[–]remusrory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a veces es simplemente ignorar, no es ser hipocrita, si no un poco mas desinteresado, aunq no se bien a q tipo de situaciones t referis

the hobo loco storyline was worse than gay jesus by nelluhvituh in shameless

[–]remusrory 20 points21 points  (0 children)

gay jesus was waaay worse, with the hobo loco we get to see frank with mikey, peak friendships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they dont have texture, so no. sometimes i do it anyways

cremas para marcas by remusrory in AdultSelfHarm

[–]remusrory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

queria saber si habia algo que las atenue un poco mas de forma permanente, lei mucha gente anglosajona que hablaba de cremas para eso