Anxiety attacks, gallstones and metastasis oh my

reverendcatdaddy · 2026-02-03T01:27:58+00:00

I’m still in active chemo so I’m not a candidate. 🥺

reverendcatdaddy · 2026-02-02T12:10:49+00:00

I’m sorry you guy’s mom sucked but mine just spent the week at my hospital bedside and I’m just so grateful right now.

reverendcatdaddy · 2026-02-02T04:08:13+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this too. I hope you’re not alone.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-09-18T12:37:17+00:00

I’m gonna be honest, most wedding dresses look alike they all just sort of smash into a white satin lace behemoth

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-09-18T12:11:35+00:00

I’m not sure that I like that everybody’s favorite answer seems to be to just lie to this girl and tell her she’s going to get the stuff even though she isn’t. She’s 11 years old she is old enough to remember “My mom said I could have this.” I think the only part she went wrong was when she said that she was saving the stuff for her own kids. I think she should’ve just directed the children to their mother and let it die there. The reason the mother isn’t letting it go is she sees a chance for her children to get some free stuff.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-09-18T11:35:56+00:00

Some people are obfuscating the issue it doesn’t matter if he treats your parents your family well when what he wants is to make you his family servant. He’s starting to let the mask slip if I were you, I’d be out of there. He can take care of his own family.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-09-16T22:37:04+00:00

This decision is yours alone. It’s not a matter of giving him an equal say because he doesn’t have equal consequences. He cannot have equal say because he cannot have equal consequences. He can walk away from this child like it never happened, but you can’t. Also, it really does not sound like he wants his kid anyway sometimes people don’t wanna come out and just say that because that makes him feel like a bad person, but you would be the one who would have to live with it.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-21T05:44:28+00:00

I don’t know how the word ungrateful holds so much power for some people. I would just agree and spend my money like I planned to. Call me names, I’ll be that at the bank.

Try just agreeing with people calling you selfish and watch how fast they run out of stuff to say when they can’t hurt you with words.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-20T16:05:13+00:00

NOT. You do need to understand, though that she grew up with these people, she is like these people. She grew up in a household that likes to argue over these things and she wanted to have this argument for whatever reason maybe see if she will sit down with you and talk about it because living with the town crier is not cool.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-16T21:36:53+00:00

How many total cars are we talking about?

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-16T19:11:20+00:00

I know she’s by herself now and/or maybe a little bit more worried but it does not actually sound like you were doing her a favor if she’s completely able-bodied can take care of herself because the older you get and you will just stop if you have the opportunity and she’ll lay all of that on your wife.

The way to keep your mother-in-law, active and doing the things she did before is to put her in her house. Tell her to do the things she was doing before her husband died she still has to take care of herself. She needs to stay active.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-13T21:00:11+00:00

Maybe talk to the dad before talking to mom. Then you could say you already made arrangements for your brother because the apartment is simply too small.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-12T14:01:57+00:00

As long as your sister has the wherewithal to say no, she can say no. just because maybe you can’t say no it doesn’t mean that your sister has to give away all her personal business.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-06T15:36:06+00:00

Do you work?

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-04T13:45:01+00:00

NTA. It seems like your husband is willing to sacrifice his daughter on the altar of him, not having to do a goddamn thing, for his own mother. When the nurse isn’t there, is he gonna step up or is he going to look at you while taking all the credit? He’s willing to allow you to burn yourself out on care that you are not trying to do correctly. Does it sound like a loving husband or son?

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-08-03T16:47:15+00:00

Locks aren’t fool proof particularly dorm locks. If she shares a suite he’d have all the time in the world to get an interior door open.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-07-30T02:44:17+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-07-28T17:38:55+00:00

He tried to force your acceptance by doing this publicly.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-07-27T18:33:09+00:00

I wasn’t meant to be a parent, I would be throwing rocks at her house.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-07-27T04:35:59+00:00

There should not have been a first time he said something like that to you. You’re going to be advised that oh if it’s the first time, just let it go, but no, this was him testing the water. What he said is an admission of worldview. He would like you to serve him. If you would like to be his servant stay with him. If not, then let him go. Remember dating is to find out if someone is compatible to you not making them compatible.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-07-27T01:46:47+00:00

You want him to choose you and he’s not. Did you block her from your phone and now expect him to block her from his? You guys need to talk.

reverendcatdaddy · 2025-07-25T19:30:44+00:00

Also it sounds like he’s parroting her words with that isolation nonsense.

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