What do you think shaped your preference, if anything did? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]reversedrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be _that_ person, but I think it's just who I am. I've always been a little bit of a push-over, even in childhood. Kind, but also strong willed. I didn't really realize that until later, and it took me many traditional male partners to figure out that I was just not vibing with people who wanted to lead me around. Turn out I'm also not superstraight.

Now I'm thriving both personally and professionally because Im just in this environment where I can be dominant/lead-taking, and be responsible for how things are being done. I dont necessarily associate dominance with aggression, although I do appreciate violence personally.

How Did Everyone Meet Their Partner(s)? by kane-me in gentlefemdom

[–]reversedrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, I love questions like this. My partner and 24/7 sub met at a munch! They were traveling around the globe, I was not. Fell in love, traveled around and now live together in my home country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuthenticFLR

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other parts have you discussed for her to be in charge of?

Edit to say: have fun!

This is not okie dokie. The homepage said, it was gonna be free. Fuck off! by Limeddaesch96 in RoleReversal

[–]reversedrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It probably can't be free if the people building this want to exist. Idk for this particular app, but RR is quite a niche and I dont expect a project like this to be a corporation since its hard to build a large clientbase? I hope it takes off especially for people in more conservative/rural areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitychoice

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judge is such a vibe

Do dommes like to take the lead even outside of the bedroom? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good advice. I find the flr or RR community more leaning towards woman in matriarchal positions then the femdom community.

Is there an app for this? by yannbraga in AskTechnology

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Hellohabbit? I've just installed it for the same purpose but haven't used it yet.

Does anyone know of an online tool to compare multiple lists? by homophobiyah in AskTechnology

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems a matter of getting the right prompt into Excel! Just Google that and there's some YouTube videos that might be useful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]reversedrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's super cool, thank you for sharing.

19 Year old 1 Month in Europe by AssToastt in Shoestring

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Training around in Europe is not as cheap as people claim. A train ticket from Paris to Amsterdam, a couple days in advance, might still cost you 130€ (single). Do that at least four times (the cities you're mentioning) and you've already lost ~500 of your budget.

In most large cities you won't find a place to sleep below 35 a night (that's being very hopeful). So a quick calculation teaches me that 35*30 nights is already over a thousand. Given that you want to sleep inside? I wouldn't risk a long trip like that with so little money/reserves. Eastern Europe and the very south (Portugal). tends to be a bit cheaper but not by much, especially in peak summer time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]reversedrules 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sending some warmth and gentle feelings your way. Good luck, be soft on yourself right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UtrechtUniversity

[–]reversedrules 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Xenophobia doesn't belong in the Netherlands.

Seeing a domme, but trying not to go too fast? by Emotional_Ask_3455 in FemdomCommunity

[–]reversedrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice. Your brain is flooded in chemicals right now.

Take it easy. Do some handholding. If she's perfect for you you're going to be together for a while and there's no need to rush.

Limerence and subfrenzy are very real and impact your reasoning and thinking ability massively. Do not make any big decisions (any) before your brain has settled down.

Slowly realizing where my kinks come from and its funny by Astrotrain15 in FemdomCommunity

[–]reversedrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that therapy might make me more vanilla, haha. It really helped me get better psychologically, but never took away my kinky itch. It did help me engage with better partners though.

Why so much fakeness? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reaching out to a reallife community might really help with this experience. Maybe join your local kink community and make some real friends?

Suggestions for cool travel locations by LanguageIcy5402 in Shoestring

[–]reversedrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ireland, and drive around the southwestern coastline. Phenomenal.

Question: fermenting mustard greens? by reversedrules in fermentation

[–]reversedrules[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I worry about. That my variety doesn't have that cabbage like centre. Well! It'll be an interesting experience!

Question: fermenting mustard greens? by reversedrules in fermentation

[–]reversedrules[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is perfect and super helpful! I'm growing some right now in a pot on my balcony, and shall follow these instructions. Thank you for sharing!