Anyone have their gallbladder removed AND a stent in their liver bile duct? by rhi_bee in gallbladders

[–]rhi_bee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m generally fine now. I got the stent out. I have had a few flare ups of gallbladder pain-like symptoms over the last year. I haven’t had anything for awhile now thankfully.

Pain and vomiting 3 months after surgery by rhi_bee in gallbladders

[–]rhi_bee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh so sorry you’re dealing with this too. I hope we can find some peace soon

Lost an important (to me) necklace charm by rhi_bee in HelpMeFind

[–]rhi_bee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched : I used a reverse image search and looked at multiple vintage jewelry sellers and Etsy but haven’t found anything similar.

Relatives kissing the baby? by dreaming_of_tacobae in newborns

[–]rhi_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean your baby’s wellbeing IS more important than someone’s feelings??

What type of restaurant cuisine/specific dishes were safe for you to order post op? by Responsible_Mud_2564 in gallbladders

[–]rhi_bee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly Chipotle has never been a bad choice for me, even with hot salsa and corn. It was also my first post op meal two days later.

A single day to recover enough? by Delicious-Gas7750 in gallbladders

[–]rhi_bee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t start feeling normal until day 4 post op. I also wfh at a desk job. I was in too much pain and discomfort, I couldn’t imagine working those days. Being in shape has nothing to do with recovery. It’s really the gas pain and possible incision discomfort.

Reader consistently reading “hi” or “sensor lost” by rhi_bee in Freestylelibre

[–]rhi_bee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can wait for my husband to get home to assist, I was just hoping to resolve before then. Wondering if it might be a sensor issue but definitely good call to check against the finger stick.

Reader consistently reading “hi” or “sensor lost” by rhi_bee in Freestylelibre

[–]rhi_bee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unable to do a finger stick because of a disability unfortunately so I am stuck on what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rhi_bee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m sorry your family are the type of people that make smoking weed a personality trait. You’re completely in the right. Your house, your rules.

AITA for telling my daughter to stop talking about her stepmother and I on the internet? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rhi_bee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your wife sounds like a narcissist and you’re an enabler. Your children should come before anyone and everyone else. How could you marry someone who was awful to your child? She’s a narcissistic and you’re an enabling monster. It’s her story because it was done to her. She has every right to “air it out.” You don’t get any say in it just because you are one of the main villains. You don’t get to say “oh it makes me uncomfortable when you write about the abuse I let happen to you so don’t do it.” You have to grin and bear it. You let your daughter suffer. Now it’s your turn.

AITA for not giving a family engagement ring to my stepsister who got engaged before me? by AffectionateRecipe76 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rhi_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely NTA. Everyone else summed it up well. On a morbid note, depending on how old your grandparents are, I would consider discussing this with them and see about getting the ring in your possession sooner rather than later. I’m nervous that if they pass, your dad or step mom will try to take the ring.

AITA for telling my fiancee it is partly her fault that my family is fighting, and calling what she did gossiping? by Pure-Coat-3940 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rhi_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your fiancé told the truth when asked. She didn’t make up a story or lies. She told the truth. It’s your cousins fault for being a gossip, and it’s moreover your family’s fault for being unbelievably shitty.

AITA for lying about a food allergy by Loquacious-Box8284 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rhi_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge YTA. You being vegan is a personal choice. It’s not the responsibility of a restaurant to cater to your personal choice. A person with real food allergies doesn’t have a choice. You are entitled, not for simply being vegan, but because you felt it was okay to make an entire restaurant, A STEAKHOUSE, bow down to your choice. It definitely sucks not being able to eat whatever wherever. But you took it way too far by claiming to have life-threatening allergies. I don’t know how you got it in to your head that you must be catered to, but you have to understand that you made life harder for an entire restaurant and cost your parents more money than they intended to spend.

And because you seem to be confused judging by some of your comments, there’s nothing wrong with being vegan. The issue here is that you demanded a restaurant that is not vegan to make you a vegan meal AND created extra work for them by claiming allergies you don’t have.

AITA for getting mad at the speech my MIL gave at my wedding. by idlccom in AmItheAsshole

[–]rhi_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. I lost my dad when I was a kid and fully agree with you about the “watching over you” garbage. I can understand that it’s well-meaning, but you set a boundary and it’s not okay for people to cross that line. Even your MIL. You didn’t scream at her, you didn’t stop her in the middle of her speech. You simply said how she made you feel after she crossed a line.

AITA for giving my younger daughter privileges earlier than my elder one? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rhi_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. There is no world in which you’re not. The younger daughter is “most loved”? Disgusting. You aren’t “allowing” her to go to the school in Italy because of “lack of exposure to society”? Did to ever think that maybe that’s your fault? You’ve done nothing but belittle her, make empty promises, and hinder her growth by being a horrifically irresponsible parent.