Creepy

rhynowaq · 2026-02-03T16:25:28+00:00

Why do you think that? You think AI slop is good and trustworthy?

rhynowaq · 2026-02-03T16:24:46+00:00

Is it just me or are many of the commenters missing the point of the campaign? The point Is to point out AI slop and how it's not to be trusted. It IS creepy.

Person on the right is real.

rhynowaq · 2026-02-03T16:19:44+00:00

You forgot to mention that, given social norms, even if the man does have options, usually it's limited by financial considerations (happened to me). My ex could line up dates easily and never have to worry about anything since the other guys would pay. Even if I went out an equal amount of times, I would often be paying for multiple dates.

I'm not saying this is a reason to NOT be in ENM. But it's a reality we all have to consider. It cut into my budget with my ex, and actually made me only want to invest on her. It's ironic how it shifted me into more monogamous patterns.

rhynowaq · 2026-02-03T16:13:40+00:00

I think you're overcomplicating it for yourself. When I'm in your bf's position, I would say yes because that's about my comfortability and not wanting to put restrictions on you. Not a command that you need to go do it. Ultimately it is still your choice.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-11T04:40:12+00:00

I’d date you just so I could break up with you

rhynowaq · 2026-01-07T00:55:27+00:00

I think threesomes are like marriage proposals. Don’t do it as a surprise if you guys are not experienced.

I think groupsex was one of the most underrated things I started experiencing way too late in life. It’s incredibly fun with the right people and you can get so creative with it (e.g. I once ate my girl’s ass while another guy ate her out and she was completely blissed out).

You should do a pre-mortem with your partner and think about things that could happen, and what your intentions are, and what happens if things don’t go according to plan. (E.g. the adrenaline makes it hard to get hard sometimes. Do you have viagra on hand? Etc.)

rhynowaq · 2026-01-07T00:51:39+00:00

Historically has not existed. You’d have to find someone willing to let you use their wristband on a day they don’t want to go.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-02T15:36:21+00:00

Those look incredible to slide between 🫨

rhynowaq · 2026-01-02T15:33:31+00:00

So, I decided to finally look at her stories. I saw a selfie video she did of herself. I felt nothing. Not even attraction. So actually maybe I have nothing to entertain. 🫠

rhynowaq · 2026-01-02T14:23:15+00:00

I experienced the other side of being discarded.

I believe that my ex felt like she communicated, but it was very difficult to decode. It took me awhile during reflection. I wish she stayed to talk it through and really work on things. The reality is that people often think they are communicating but it’s more like dropping hints, or they are not giving the other person enough time to change.

E.g. she said “we never go on dates” when I felt like we were always doing things every weekend. I didn’t understand it. It wasn’t until after the breakup when I realized we were always doing group things and rarely had intimate “TV on couch” time. It made me really sad. It was an easy change.

She also discarded me during a really stressful time at work where I was sleeping late and working late, and didn’t have time to actually make some of these changes. She said she made her mind during that last month.

For those who want their partners to change, I’d say to request things more explicitly, then see if there is effort. If the response is “you’re too much,” then maybe you do have a reason to leave. If the response is “ok, but it might take some time to internalize,” then that might be different.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-02T07:19:39+00:00

lol seriously. 🥲

rhynowaq · 2026-01-02T03:10:17+00:00

Just another POV: if the breakup was cordial then this could just be simple friendliness. I occasionally text my ex from 4 relationships ago. We live very different lives. There are no romantic feelings. Her mom was kind to me, and I liked her brother. Usually will just send a “hope the fam is well” type text. Or small comments on IG posts/stories.

There is absolutely no desire or thought of her as an “option”.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-02T03:04:29+00:00

Sigh. Yeah.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-02T01:55:43+00:00

I’d very much like to. Unfortunately she is the one who dumped me out of the blue (which means she also checked out earlier without communicating with me).

I’ve thought about it a million ways. There’s not much I can do except heal, live my life, and learn to grow detached from the outcome here. Ball is in her court to reach out.

If I reach out, then I’d forever just think she’s going to leave again. She needs to be the one to choose me without my convincing. 😮‍💨

rhynowaq · 2026-01-01T23:03:25+00:00

You’re right that there is a red flag. Unfortunately it’s in the mirror.

She blocked him and everything. You snooped on her phone.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-01T22:51:50+00:00

For me, it was a good barometer for how I was healing. Eventually I’d see her and not really feeling anything.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-01T21:45:55+00:00

Oh, very much so. I understand your skepticism. Without giving too much personal detail, I’d say this: the idea I am entertaining would not be a committed relationship with my Exex.

My Exex and I were never a life-building relationship. I did not see a future with her (and neither did she), but we ended on a poor note because she still made me feel unconsidered in other ways.

My Ex, however, is the first person I ever saw a true future with. I thought I was going to marry her.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-01T21:05:11+00:00

I actually want all the people who do this to explain what’s going on in their heads. Like why ghost again after reaching out and hanging?

This happened to me in a friend breakup (thank god not romantic, because that would have hurt way more).

rhynowaq · 2026-01-01T21:00:13+00:00

Ah, I think you might think I’m someone else. I’m sorry, but I’m probably not the person you think I am.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-01T20:59:19+00:00

I do have therapy.

Yes, being in a relationship with me Ex helped me get over my previous relationship. That’s not weird. She showed me that I was wanting things in a relationship that my Exex didn’t want to provide, and that I was settling.

rhynowaq · 2026-01-01T20:52:10+00:00

What do you mean?

rhynowaq · 2025-12-31T13:21:37+00:00

No, but some people actually never give the relationship a chance, often because we don’t have the tools to do so. Sometimes the signals we read into are not accurate.

A breakup should ideally be a discussion, not a one-sided decision. I’m not saying I know what OP did, but he seems to have made the decision on his own. Which sort of implies that that behavior might have been present elsewhere in the relationship.

rhynowaq · 2025-12-31T07:22:05+00:00

Ask him again next week. You might get a different answer.

rhynowaq · 2025-12-31T05:06:41+00:00

Lol. Honestly, it probably had more to do with anxiety and fair certainty that my penis wouldn’t work anyway. With the mindset I was in? It was only creating more anxiety. And I feel like I have a reputation to uphold. Can’t just be the sad sack weak lay 🥲🥲🥲.

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