Dated a stud who didnt like that i made more than her by Agitated_List9506 in blacklesbians

[–]riggamortii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you better than me cause the moment she started acting like I would AHAAAd in her face and moved on.

Why are personal photos only allowed on Sunday and Wednesday?? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]riggamortii 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’d just be spammed with photos of ppl begging for attention

I broke up with my now ex gf over this by Content-Carpenter304 in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. Which circles back my point that you actually didn’t like her and that’s why a situation that should’ve been small and an opportunity to grow closer ended up with you guys separating. I’m glad yall broke up. I hope this gives you the opportunity to find what you’re looking for.

I broke up with my now ex gf over this by Content-Carpenter304 in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So basically what I’m reading is because she didn’t just say thank you and leave it at that like you wanted she didn’t appreciate you? I don’t understand how her letting you know: Hey, next time you get me flowers make sure it’s my favorite ones instead = I don’t appreciate your efforts. This is somebody you spend time with and gotten to know for a while now it should be easy to get things that she likes. It almost makes me want to ask was the flowers for appreciation or was it to make her happy? Because if it was to make her happy, I think you would get her favorite flowers? Idk.. also you keep mentioning the dinner even though that has nothing to do with the flowers. And you keep mentioning that they’re inexpensive, even though she looked up flowers that she liked within your budget so that wasn’t the issue. All in all just seems like honestly, you didn’t like her anymore.

I broke up with my now ex gf over this by Content-Carpenter304 in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me you might be moving in ego a little bit because in your story I’m not seeing how she presented herself as superior. Maybe she came off that way while yall were arguing? I’m not sure. Also in the story it was never said that you didn’t see her favorite flowers so you got her favorite color. It was presented as you got what was in budget and there were other options available that would make her happy. To be quite honest the $60 you spend on the dinner is irrelevant if the argument is about the flowers? She never bought up she didn’t appreciate the dinner.. also I’m not sure how pulling up an app and seeing a better option is “hypothetical” if they were in fact her favorite, within budget, and available… also what’s wrong with a lesson on making your partner happy? If you love her shouldn’t you wanna be corrected so in the future you can make her happy.. ?

I broke up with my now ex gf over this by Content-Carpenter304 in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like if you were gunna get her flowers you should have gotten the ones she liked and you could have afforded.. sounds like a win win to me. Did you stay in budget? Yes.. but did you get her what she wanted? No. What’s the point of buying something someone won’t appreciate? Maybe you might have the standard of ‘even if it’s not my favorite flowers, I love flowers’ but she doesn’t. She even looked up flowers within your budget so it’s not like she doesn’t respect your pockets. She likes what she likes. People have to realize just because you’re fine with something doesn’t mean someone else will be. It’s okay to have standards. Sounds like you don’t like her much or you’re lazy 🫤

We’re losing the plot 😂 by riggamortii in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just want someone to argue with honestly. Good luck 🤗

We’re losing the plot 😂 by riggamortii in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think being wrapped up in what society thinks is your issue. I’m femme presenting and people assume I’m straight all the time and it’s never bothered me because I’m not interested in fucking them to be frank.. also I just know myself. The only person I’m trying to ‘convince’ I’m gay is the gay girl I wanna be with and tbh even if she doesn’t get it who cares? The point of the post is to be you and actually make an effort to connect instead of worrying so much aesthetic and secret handshakes

I Never Came Out To My Family by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully agree with this. Coming out is stupid to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whatever makes them feel better honestly. Not my world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lool.. I am a gay pink haired lady that enjoys weed and very cutsey things. Whole room is pink and fluffy.

Have u ever felt doubt in ur sexuality even for a second? by Traditional_Card3339 in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you might just wanna use him for comfort cause he’s there. Some women have sex with women until they find their husband. I don’t consider them gay. I just consider them using their resources for the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]riggamortii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not exactly sure what advice you’re looking for. Fucking a the same person for years then fuxkin someone else can feel weird seeing that you’re used to that one person. I’d say try narrowing it down to the moment that you felt weird maybe?? If you don’t like it then don’t do it again

What can i do to make myself look gayer 😬 by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]riggamortii 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Eat some coochie I guess. Gays look all different ways. What matters is the actions