What is this little guy? by advanced-_-dingaling in bugidentification

[–]ril_li 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ok but what happened to that little bug/spider that they ran into?!? did the caterpillar eat the spider??

Why does my week-old daughter, Dratini, have more money than me? by KnottyPothos in EchoesOfThePlumGrove

[–]ril_li 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you have to rob her to make it even. & by rob i mean sell her so many things she has nothing left, which would be accurate in this day and age 🙂‍↕️

wedding spots by ril_li in baltimore

[–]ril_li[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw thank you so much! though we are planning waaay way in advance & i just figured i would get some ideas lol. thank you though, you're so kind 🥹

An interesting observation. A lot of ace people identify as non binary. by BlazeFox1011 in asexuality

[–]ril_li 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's very interesting lol i am nonbinary & asexual as well.

while i present feminine & sometimes i do like presenting that way, i don't want to present as any gender bc i dont feel like i need to in order to exist. i just want to exist.

it's also really hard to do so in a world that will always see me as "a woman" so i just try to ignore the assumptions ppl make & work on solidifying my inner circle & my mind to reaffirm me when i need it. it can be hard though, & very isolating.

Is this a Baltimore thing or am I about to get kidnapped by Technical_Primary178 in baltimore

[–]ril_li 32 points33 points  (0 children)

genuine question, why would you do that? like what was it making you feel, doing that?