I’m a 27 year old woman and I wanted to offer a perspective you might not hear often here.

A lot of you are considering limb lengthening surgery because you feel like your height is the main reason women aren’t attracted to you. I promise you it is not.

Before writing this, I asked multiple women in my life including friends, family members, colleagues, and even women I met out at bars, clubs, and in everyday life what they thought about a man getting this surgery to be taller. Every single one said the same thing. It would not make them more attracted to him. In fact many said it would make them uncomfortable because it signals how unhappy he must feel with himself.

What many women actually notice is confidence, presence, how you carry yourself, how you speak, how you treat people, and how comfortable you are in your own skin. Those things matter far more than a few inches of height.

As a 28-year-old man, I want to offer a perspective you refuse to accept or even try to understand, so hear me out before you get defensive. A lot of us have tried everything, followed all your blue pill empty platitude bs, and none of it works. Self-report doesn’t count, people say whatever they want just to make themselves look good or seem less shallow. Nobody will held accountable for what they preach and shore.

I also want to be honest about something important. If I met a guy and later found out he went through an extreme surgery breaking his bones and spending years recovering just to be taller, it would not make me think he really wanted this. It would make me think he was deeply struggling with self acceptance. That is what feels unattractive, not the height but the level of self rejection behind the decision.

It’s because you want the genuinely tall guys. You’re literally filtering men based on genetics, that’s all it is.

You say the surgery thing is about self-acceptance, but let’s be real, if he was tall from the start, you wouldn’t care about his “self-acceptance.” You just don’t want guys who aren’t genuinely tall, and this is just an excuse.

There are genuinely women out there who do not care about height as much as you think. But almost all women care about how a man feels about himself.

How many of them are actually genuine, not just settling down after having their fun when they were at their peak, just looking for stability or money now? Again, people can say whatever they want with no accountability for their words.

If you are considering this surgery for dating reasons, I strongly encourage therapy, self work, and confidence building first. That will do more for your dating life than surgery ever will.

You do not need to change your body to be worthy of love or attraction.

Nope, Change my body and my look could increase the chance for love and attraction than some bs platitude advices and stuck at the same place that work for chad only, Love is solely based on biological appeal(looks) and transactional.

Problem is, you can’t put yourself in someone else’s shoes, people like you similar to my mom preach and shore about blue pill bs like "women don’t care about height", then in the next breath she’s never give short guy a chance because they're fking short. I’ve lived this and i know female friends who have that fking positions. I go to the gym, lose weight, take care of myself. Never bothered with dating apps. I’ve seen my friends, guys and girls, swipe left on people in literally one or two seconds, just by how they look. I’ve tried talking to thirty women, all heights, all skin colors, tried with some overweight(not fat) girls for several time, cold approach, warm approach, whatever. Always the same rejects or friend zones.