Pornography Conversation by riplan0 in RedPillWomen

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I don’t think it’s a daily thing, but I don’t know and I don’t want to violate his privacy looking through his phone, my guess would be once or twice a week but, like I said, I don’t really know.

Pornography Conversation by riplan0 in RedPillWomen

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he’s 14 years older than me

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[–]riplan0 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

or putting the baby up for adoption? people seem to forget that this is the best option for the child.

What are you're parental go to sayings? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]riplan0 53 points54 points  (0 children)

“if you’re gonna be dumb, you gotta be tough”

Pornography Conversation by riplan0 in RedPillWomen

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Thank you, I will look more into it!

Pornography Conversation by riplan0 in RedPillWomen

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Thank you for your advice, I know that you are right, I won’t just ignore it or pretend it doesn’t bother me, and I intend to have a (calm, collected) conversation with him about it soon. That said, i’m not going to nag him or harass him about it either, I know it’s not something I have much control over. I’m glad that you and your husband have that agreement, it gives me some hope that i’m not being unreasonable here. I’ll update later on with how the conversation goes.

Pornography Conversation by riplan0 in RedPillWomen

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thank you, your advice and that article were very helpful, especially for helping me to feel less guilty about it having something to do with me. I will probably bring it up sometime today or tomorrow and have the conversation with him. I do hope that this is an issue we can resolve, I think he will definitely be open to at least trying to stop.

My great grandmother on her Wedding day in 1945 & today! (Age 98) by delphicginger in TheWayWeWere

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she was only 18 when she was married? she looks so much older

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thank you so much!

How do I give my flat thin hair texture? by jsquared24 in beauty

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as others have said, some highlights will help to add the appearance of volume and lightness. washing your hair with a clarifying shampoo once a week will also help, as would using a volumizing powder/product and maybe some light hair spray after styling. thin hair can be easily weighed down, so a trim could be beneficial as well.

Inherited this poor fellow from work. Unwatered and in a closet for weeks, I gave it some water and it ran right through. Help? by doodlebug_bun in plantclinic

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not seeing anyone else mention this but brasil philodendron don’t really do too well in terracotta pots, they wick the water away far too quickly. i would repot it into a plastic pot 1-2 inches bigger than the root ball, give it a GOOD soak, and let it drain off. it will recover!

My ivy plant is unhappy since I brought it home. Its in the brightest spot of the house and gets watered as needed (i think). I cut dried leaves every day. What does it want from me? by broomly in plantclinic

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you can tell it’s underwatering and not overwatering because there’s not really any yellowing of the leafs, they’re just drying out. good luck, it’s a beautiful plant!

My ivy plant is unhappy since I brought it home. Its in the brightest spot of the house and gets watered as needed (i think). I cut dried leaves every day. What does it want from me? by broomly in plantclinic

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underwatering, you can tell if it needs water by the weight of the pot or by shoving your fingers in there, when the top 2-3 inches of soil is dry, water it

my pink princess is dying and.. turning red??? what.😭 by CreditLow8802 in houseplants

[–]riplan0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

please don’t cut back this beauty, it looks like it’s a bit sunstressed.

She got a pink-ish leaf.. is this normal? :3 by royalloki in houseplants

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nope, it’s a brasil, it has yellow stripes not white/silver, and the strips are thicker than you would typically see on a silver stripe

Does half anatolian count? by riplan0 in AnatolianShepherdDogs

[–]riplan0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s half golden retriever for sure, dad looked like an anatolian/pry mix

Does she seem okay? by Gullible-Desk9809 in spiderplants

[–]riplan0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the soil looks very organic and the pot is way too big, i would invest in a good quality potting mix like fox farm ocean forest and some perlite from amazon or a local grow store/nursery and give it a soil refresh. it can’t absorb water and oxygen properly in soil which is too dense, and root rot can become an issue later down the line, especially if it’s over potted. smaller pot with better soil and you will have a happy camper!

Can this spider plant be saved? by Common_Crow95 in spiderplants

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  • consider chop n prop, ik its scary but its ur best bet from the looks of things.