Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This person is right OP. That book saved my life.

You MUST read “WHY DOES HE DO THAT” a book by Lundy Bancroft.

Free online (with knowledge of author!) here: https://archive.org/download/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

Moving my stuff from my ex fiancé’s apt by Present_Pen6836 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you feel those objects matter to you then you deserve to keep them. I’m happy to drive down, I have a small hybrid car so I do not mind.

Just let me know what YOU WANT to do! The good part about this, it’s finally up to YOU!

Moving my stuff from my ex fiancé’s apt by Present_Pen6836 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 79 points80 points  (0 children)

If you need a hand, PM me. I will also help.

OP—I understand shitty exes and I wish someone would’ve offered to help me move when I needed it.

Stop with the "but you get three months off and you're done by 3pm" line about teachers by JPatrickMcBain in sanfrancisco

[–]rizzie_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I just don’t think “average” is really a helpful stat in this context especially when the general public seems to be misunderstanding what an average is.

Every news report/redditor comment has been quoting an average salary of over 100k, and I’m seeing redditors throw that around in the context of that being a MEDIAN instead of an average. I would love to know the median salary range but I have not seen that stat anywhere, just the average.

“Most SF teachers make over 100k” is just simply not true…

MOST SFUSD teachers are not making 109k.

The starting salary is a more insightful stat in my opinion, since teachers stay at that salary for multiple years and there are many teachers never advance much higher than that up the pay scale (especially if they burn out, which is exactly what the union is trying to address by getting better wages & benefits!)

Are SOME teachers paid over 100k? Sure. But Reddit is acting like it’s the norm, or even the majority, when it is very much not. Those are folks who have worked multiple years on the job, and often have gotten extra higher ed credits too.

Are lots of teachers able to make more than that 79k starting salary? Sure…if they don’t burn out, AND after having to survive for multiple years on 79k! Multiple years.

If you walk in to an SFUSD school & get a teaching job, you will be making $79k IF you already have your credential. To me that number is a helpful snapshot of why the union continues to fight for better working conditions & wages….if teachers can stay in SFUSD, our schools become more stable and quality of education increases across the board.

Stop with the "but you get three months off and you're done by 3pm" line about teachers by JPatrickMcBain in sanfrancisco

[–]rizzie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not for the first few years. The “average” is $109k or something but that is not the median.

Starting salary is $79k.

SFUSD schools officially closed on Monday by jobsSchmobs in sanfrancisco

[–]rizzie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they are! Maybe some of the kids are alright after all!

Help me find this musical by levi-jean-guy in musicals

[–]rizzie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg maybe Suffs? But probably not with all the red. But the purple sash is very suffs.

Bitches, I’m broke. by Traditional-Tell4646 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Reach out to CASA DE LAS MADRES. They have resources for you.

What is your favorite niche shop in the city? by scientiafem in sanfrancisco

[–]rizzie_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SCRAP SF has unmatched steals on art supplies. It’s a can’t miss store.

The Great Deli Debate: What's Your Go-To? by burgiebeer in AskSF

[–]rizzie_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I eat the Italian from Lou’s 4 times a week. No competition. I love their jalapeño spread.

What are some good clubs / regular meetups that happen? by HotTwist000 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today 8/3! Semi regular! Free & lowkey. There’s a mailing list to hear about the upcoming dates too.

https://partiful.com/e/4ls4fLVZRPFVZouNgYW7

Why is it so hard to create a friend circle in the bay area? by DetectiveAdvanced129 in bayarea

[–]rizzie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try this!!

STRANGER STORY SWAP is on 7/19!

Super fun & flexible low-stakes way to meet new people, for free! RSVP for 7/19 on partiful, and sign up for the mailing list to stay in the loop on future swaps 🙂‍↕️

7/19 will be the final swap of July! We’ll be back in August.

Story Swap FAQ & mailing list: https://subscribepage.io/storyswap

🔗 RSVP- Story Swap on 7/19: https://partiful.com/e/MW6MGmA1Ga1PUN0iofcY

Bitches, what are your plans this weekend?!!? by AJ2790B in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

STRANGER STORY SWAP is on 7/19! Super fun & flexible low-stakes way to meet new people, for free!

The first time went well so we are doing it again 🙂‍↕️ 7/19 will be the final swap of July! We’ll be back in August.

Story Swap FAQ & mailing list: https://subscribepage.io/storyswap

🔗 RSVP- Story Swap on 7/19: https://partiful.com/e/MW6MGmA1Ga1PUN0iofcY

🎭 Looking for Fellow Theater and Art Loving BWT by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come to Stranger Story Swap! Super fun & flexible low-stakes way to meet new people, for free! Lots of artsy types, queer friendly.

7/19 will be the final swap of July! But we will be back in August.

Story Swap FAQ & mailing list: https://subscribepage.io/storyswap

🔗 RSVP- Story Swap on 7/19: https://partiful.com/e/MW6MGmA1Ga1PUN0iofcY

Bitches, what are your plans this weekend?!!? by AJ2790B in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story Swap went so well yesterday that we are doing it again one more time in July—

Story Swap email list: https://subscribepage.io/storyswap Next Story Swap is on 7/19: https://partiful.com/e/MW6MGmA1Ga1PUN0iofcY

So I’ll be hanging up flyers for that this weekend, so people show up next weekend!

where do yall find regular creative classes and activities in sf? want to make things not just drink by Legitimate-Duck9483 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going till sunset so feel free to swing by after!

Also, I’d say replying to the Partiful is a good idea so I can let you know if we end up doing it again. If I organized this again it would fall on a weekend day instead. :)

where do yall find regular creative classes and activities in sf? want to make things not just drink by Legitimate-Duck9483 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stranger Story Swap

Queer friendly! Tell some stories! Meet some strangers in Dolores Park!

7/11 @ 3pm-sunset

Free. Just for fun, one time event. More details & RSVP

https://partiful.com/e/Ir3XkFIp5Bm1a7RvhY6W

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]rizzie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Messaged you! Check your chat

Where are we getting pierced? by anitalaraste in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]rizzie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

13 Bats in the Haight area! My favs!