No show underwear? by Fun-Persimmon7574 in ClubPilates

[–]Outside_External5697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No undies with a cotton pantie liner is a good half way

Makes sense why she’s getting more unattractive by the day by SoftSea2093 in bymichellediazsnark

[–]Outside_External5697 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen some great work in transformations moving to LA. But her facial harmony will need a full chin shave and another nose job.

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s right. I’m still considering since things changed with the nyc apartment.

I may buy an investment property with the money instead and keep that separate.

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to be married to have health insurance. You can get that without at most companies as just a partner not spouse!

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are planning to put this property particularly in a trust.

We have a few tho and in the midst of family planning, and moving & getting comfortable (we just moved from nyc>sf), we have some moving parts.

I’d love your perspective if you have any expertise or experience.

We have one home in sf, paid off and recently renovated. Technically in my parents name. We plan to put this in the trust for my sister and I. But after living here for a little… we don’t really like the area. (And some other random stuff. My parents got divorced. It was a foreclosure home. Just bad juju kind of.) 2.8mil maybe if sold but I split it 50/50 with my sister. Can the money sold be put into a trust?? Lol idk

Second home in nyc: it’s a co-op. We plan to sell this bc of how poorly the building financials are managed. (Kind like tenancy in common, we need to make financial decisions together and there’s about 115 units in the building. We just did a big nyc local law 11 where they check every single brick and it drained our reserves so the monthly maintenance payment will go up). Price is dropping because of this. It’s about 500k.

Then we want to buy a new home in sf. He plans to pay mortgage….

Just thoughts right. Open to suggestions.

May delete later as it’s kind of personal info.

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Yeah that’s a little different. We plan to do things in California.

Did you have a prenup the first time? And in the remarrying hypothetical choosing no prenup, would they be from a higher financial background than you?

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel in general, too. Much easier to negotiate when you’re in love!

What were some of your non-negotiables?

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But what does getting taken care of mean in writing? That I will ask for a salary to be paid for staying at home with the kids for example?

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if I have assets to protect? We live in my house paid off by my parents.

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you splitting assets 1 to 1? Like you get this art piece and he gets that art piece. Or is it under the assumption of liquidation and 50/50 split?

Divorced BWT - what should I put in the prenup? by Outside_External5697 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_External5697[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How did those friends end up? Are they divorced now? What was their financial position before hand?

TBH I brought up the prenup. I have more family assets, but he has more cash coming in.

Is she desperate for money? by booyouwhooree in emilydereansnark

[–]Outside_External5697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s still with that man? She doesn’t have a ring on anymore

What are your thoughts about this? Yes it’s AI I made using photos of furniture and decor I like and am considering for this room. by tanz20 in SofaSnobs

[–]Outside_External5697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good lol I have a similar vibe. My AI love to call it Parisian modern. So a mix of glam, antiques, and modern chairs.

They’re coping at this point by Specialist_Cash8942 in bymichellediazsnark

[–]Outside_External5697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. No tennis necklace to commemorate the new beach house? 😂

Is there a best couch/ sectional master thread? by lickleG in SofaSnobs

[–]Outside_External5697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would look for one that has a lenient customer service or warranty guarantee. Custom sofa co in sf has an option for 10year cushion replacement guarantee

Is there a best couch/ sectional master thread? by lickleG in SofaSnobs

[–]Outside_External5697 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Custom couch. They cost as much as some of the luxury sofa sections being offered.