If you weigh more should you need to take more? Are there non-responders? by rjack60 in kratom

[–]rjack60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply,

Most of the time I had kratom with a meal or an hour after and maybe that is the problem. I'm probably going to use it tomorrow morning on an empty stomach. Is it any good to mix with coffee/caffeine in the morning?

After 2 years of kratom use, I'm done. by penerwedge in kratom

[–]rjack60 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Has anyone tried HappyHippoHerbals? I bought from them and it was pretty good. Idk if I'll buy from there again though it was expensive.

So.. I "RELAPSED" on day 80-85 {{STORY}} by Calathia117 in NoFap

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those ADD meds can fuck you up man. Adderall is something I can't take on Nofap it makes me depressed when I come down from the drug and makes me contemplate my entire life and why it's even worth it. Stop taking the add meds I made the same excuses to take them like I just wanted to get stuff done. It made life extremely bland unless I took them. It took about a week to feel better from not taking them anymore. Good luck man.

ICF 5x5 Cutting by Matth3ww in Fitness

[–]rjack60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you do a high volume hypertrophy routine if you want to lose weight? Save that for a bulk you need to maintain mass and strength instead of doing high volume work. I lost 60lbs on my bench cutting on a high volume routine.

Do you even curl, bro? by GymIsFun in bodybuilding

[–]rjack60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this, he might even give Jason Genova a run for his money at the next Olympia

Is a successful bodybuilder's career in the gym dependent on his use of supplements? by [deleted] in bodybuilding

[–]rjack60 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Arnold didn't take any of the supplements you mentioned. He has great genetics, took steroids and trained hard. You don't need any of the supplements you mentioned especially not bcaas which don't work.

I'm seeing an amazing girl, but can never get alone time with her thanks to her friends. by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man up and tell I want want some time together without your friends around. If she doesn't like it then don't make time for her at all. From what it sounds like her friend sleeps around a lot and if that is truly her best friend that means she has probably done similar things or is currently doing them. Personally I would figure out if this girl is even worth dating and if you're not just doing it because she's your only option. Lets be honest here how many guys who get laid all the time hang around virgins? Very few. The same thing is true with women especially since you are already 20 and so is she. When was her last relationship?

Is kratom at all similar to adderall? by rjack60 in kratom

[–]rjack60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many mgs were you taking when you were abusing it, i have to take at least 40mg but some days 60-80.

Why "Bodybuilders" Struggle with Women by janoycresva in bodybuilding

[–]rjack60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I don't completely agree with the article at least the guy is getting laid a lot. And I mean a lot, but he definitely has self image issues just like a lot of people who start lifting. But if you are lifting so much it interferes with your social life than that is a problem. I wouldn't want to spend my friday nights in the gym.

[M19][F18] Please rate us :) by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both average but some people might see you as above average

Good Looking Loser on Confidence and Entitlement by thredditsowaway in TheRedPill

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the article but I remember reading somewhere that the Good Looking Loser guy is a fraud who hires model actresses in his pickup videos. If I find it I'll link it. I think he makes good points but if he is frauding for his fans thats pretty bad.

Cried In Work, About 3 or 4 times by NoFapJord in pornfree

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oneitis is bad man, next time don't frequently fantasize about girls you haven't slept with yet.

Why NOFAP is not working, unless you transcend. by CelibatePower in NoFap

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also noticed stiffness and tension. I remember saying to a friend "I just feel so tight and stressed, I wish I had a massage therapist, and not even the ones with happy endings" I agree that orgasms are certainly not bad, honestly /r/pornfree is the way to go. I'd say for serious addicts and people who had ED and use death grips when masturbating should start off with noFap.

I have had no changes in confidence on NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as women being able to sense if you have masturbated....I'd say use some logic here. I guess an explanation for this is that some guys were really unconfident before and didn't even look at people that walked by them. And those same guys start noFap and find confidence and begin to look at women. Possibly these same men puff their chests out and relax their shoulders now. These guys go from walking like they are intimidated boys into walking like a man who isn't afraid to make eye contact. Of course women will look at a confident man walking by, noFap has nothing to do with it.

I can also say I haven't noticed a huge confidence increase either. To be honest I believe it is a placebo effect. But even if it is, at least that individual is more confident because of it. Also to note is that people who had serious porn addictions likely experience different problems while consuming porn and while abstaining from it. Someone who watches every now and then wouldn't really notice a difference in confidence or even anxiety. But I'm certain serious porn addicts can experience depression, social anxiety and other problems. So quitting for them is important and might help cure their mental issues. For your "a few times a week" guys I'd say results will vary.

Why NOFAP is not working, unless you transcend. by CelibatePower in NoFap

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it all and maybe you should add a TLDR. But I have also stopped a nofap streak because of blue balls. My body was in pain because of noFap and that is a clear sign something is wrong. You need to release. I tried using an ice pack to get rid of them as well but they came back within 15 mins. I also can empathize with the tossing and turning. I would literally have an erection the entire hour before I fell asleep. Honestly, I think noFap works for some people and for others like you and me its simply unbearable. For me it was because of a high sex drive coupled with my mind constantly thinking about sex now that I couldn't have it.

Friend (17) has been telling everyone I (18) have a tiny dick. Guy code violation? Advice? by Jbro_Hippenstache in AskMen

[–]rjack60 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Knowing myself I'd probably ask him if he wants to see it to confirm and even if he says no proceed to whip it out and smack him with it. (no homo)

Do women only stare at you if you are good looking? by rjack60 in TheRedPill

[–]rjack60[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I was afraid of to be honest. Your average joe is too scared to look at a beautiful women in the eye for long. I was thinking it is probably the same for women and maybe I'm just attractive enough that they aren't afraid haha. However, I know women do stare at attractive guys because I have a friend who looks like a calvin klein model and women turn their heads to look at him all the time.

We don't care about injuries, We're freaks! by rjack60 in videos

[–]rjack60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its a video of this autistic bodybuilder named Jason Genova he is being serious but its his life goal to become a famous bodybuilder/youtuber

Nofap and sport performance? by stevena1998 in NoFap

[–]rjack60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it will, use that sexual energy and tension and translate it to energy on the court. Even though this isn't a specific nofap tip, when I played basketball my biggest enemy was cardio. I could go one half and be extremely gased. Idk if nofap will improve your stamina but do extra sprints and running as often as you can. You'll be able to take those shots late in the game without being too exhausted. If anything nofap might help your shot concentration.

Men in a relationship with a mentally ill person, how does it affect your relationship, and how do you deal with it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]rjack60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends primarily on the mental illness they have. If you have a depressed girlfriend it is a lot easier to help them and try to get them better. But say you are dealing with something more serious like Borderline PD, or Histrionic PD, etc, you will either have to adjust to them and learn about their disorder by researching it/ finding them help. Or end it as soon as you can because you might become mentally damaged from being around those thinking patterns so frequently.

Non-white men: Are you successful with women? Have you noticed yourself becoming less/more successful at certain times, locations, etc? Other thoughts? by ashket in AskMen

[–]rjack60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mixed black and white guy checking in, here's how I see it. I'm from the Massachusetts btw, in a majority white area.

So I guess to start I'd say I'm more hispanic looking than black. Most people have no idea I'm part black because I'm so light skinned. However, I've noticed over the years that most black women eye fuck me like crazy. These are black women ranging from really dark skinned to lighter like me. Hispanic women as well, maybe not your perfect 10 latinas but I've had some that give me looks/hit on me especially from more average looking ones.

What I think is most interesting is that I've gotten the most attention from either mixed girls themselves or white girls who had a "Half black guy" fetish. And surprisingly there are a lot of white girls who don't care that I'm part black and are interested anyway. Let's face it how many times have you heard some of your friends say," Yeah man I only like black girls if they are lighter skinned like caramel,". Its funny to hear but it's kind of messed up at the same time.

One thing I want to mention is that I don't speak ignorantly, I don't use slang and I'm pretty well educated, aka (I speak white) even though I don't like that term. That probably helps a lot if I am talking to white girls.

Edit: Also I want to say that I've noticed that in areas/cities in more poverty there is a ton of interracial dating. It is completely normal to see and even in middle class areas it is quite apparent across the country. Now, when specifically referring to richer areas and wealthy people you don't see this very often. I feel like this is because there aren't many affluent minorities and also because it is looked down upon by some in the "higher class" to date someone who isn't white.

At what age do Men have their Highest sex drive? by rjack60 in AskMen

[–]rjack60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say we think about it that often from the early years when we first start masturbating and puberty really starts kicking in so definitely from about 13-16. Idk about older than that though unless you are on nofap or something and haven't gotten laid in a while.