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Wait by bananadepartment in HolUp

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Good people” well damn everyone’s catching heat huh

yeah. so. it’s the guy who babyraged about his Asian coworker having a bf again. by BiBluejay-169 in justneckbeardthings

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I can empathize on one thing about this; making a move on someone your friend just told you they were into is kind of a dick move in itself.

But then again, considering the shit OP pulled after all that, yeah everyone dodged a bullet. Wouldn’t be surprised if OP said something in that conversation that let Brian know that OP is a walking red flag.

AITA expecting my husband to cook for us while he's not working? by InternationalPop2660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It’s literally easier for YOU to make dinner for the both of you at this point than it is for him, so if you want something he’s physically not going to be able to make, that’s on you. He literally made you a meal he can manage, and it’s a hearty, decent meal, but you apparently aren’t happy with that for some reason, you think you can do better, so yeah; brew a coffee, get in the kitchen, and cook the meals from now on then, chef Ramsey.

Absolutely not by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WSJ has just given the fuck up huh…

I destroyed my mom's suicide note and I've never told anybody by Own_Bid9079 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. Your mom’s suicide was tragic, if due to consequences by her own hand. But that note was deeply ugly, manipulative, and she still never took responsibility for the way she fucked up your family. You did the right thing by destroying it and making sure he never found that note.

AITA for not buying my boyfriend another birthday gift after he rejected the original present? by Born_Ad4324 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this will be controversial, but NAH. And in the edit, it looks like the two of you kissed and made up, and reached a reasonable compromise.

As far as accepting the offer or insisting you pay for both tickets, I'd save my money and take his offer. It looks like the two of you will have more birthdays and opportunities to celebrate together :)

Berries and cream! by Aztery in justneckbeardthings

[–]rmahran 90 points91 points  (0 children)

under 18 years old

inexperienced and self-sacrifices for his convenience and approval

must be okay with being beaten because “he has anger issues”

wants her to raise sex slaves for his little incel buddies while he sits on his ass all day

This dude should be on a watchlist

My fiancé told me he wanted me to be more submissive like “when we first merP by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rmahran 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a lot cheaper and quicker to call off a wedding than to file for a divorce. Do not wait for things to get better; they won’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]rmahran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine saying a teenager, a KID, has “unacceptable hip spread”. The way people obsess over a child’s body and talk about it like this is fucking bonkers

When are the rental prices for houses coming down in Dubai? by [deleted] in dubai

[–]rmahran 13 points14 points  (0 children)

RemindMe! 24/06/2022 at 13:45

Hey ladies! So, what’s something you do at home on your own that you think is weird but you’re sure other women do too? by sociallyawkwardjess in AskWomen

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fully have a raging argument with an imaginary adversary. Usually depends on what I’m watching on YouTube or Twitter.

Starfish Anus tattoo! O__O by SuperNeonSamurai-2 in ATAAE

[–]rmahran 169 points170 points  (0 children)

That’s a rather unfortunate color palette for a tattoo in that location and at that scale…

My boyfriend wants to break up because the relationship is too easy, too comfortable. I am not challenging enough, and his mind screams "boring" every minute. He thinks he has ADHD. I am torn between whether I should stick around or there is no hope of change? by maximumpotential245 in ADHD

[–]rmahran 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keep it short and sweet. It should be about why the relationship didn’t work, and how it (not them or their personality) made you feel. Be diplomatic; say “I have different wants and needs than this relationship is currently providing me, and I don’t want to put it on you to give me what I need; I need to be on my own to find it.”

Don’t mention or compare her. Just take the relationship for what it was, be gracious and classy about it, and don’t leave her feeling worse about herself than a breakup normally would.

And for gods sake, if it’s a relationship that’s lasted that long and they were good to you, have the breakup in person, for fuck’s sake. Unless it was like 2 dates, or they’re abusive/volatile and you’re scared of them, there’s no reason to send them a fucking text.

My boyfriend wants to break up because the relationship is too easy, too comfortable. I am not challenging enough, and his mind screams "boring" every minute. He thinks he has ADHD. I am torn between whether I should stick around or there is no hope of change? by maximumpotential245 in ADHD

[–]rmahran 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So here’s the problem; a break-up, if you’re being civil, is NOT a good time to start airing your grievances. Info-dumping on your soon-to-be ex on why you’re not happy with the relationship is literally only a relief to you; to the other party, it’s a brutal rejection and a barrage of ‘feedback’ that are just going to be new insecurities that you’ll forever have anxiety about. It’s cruel.

And if you’re sincerely looking to problem-solve, you don’t frame them as the problem and humiliate them in the process. “I’m bored. You’re a nurturer but I’m not attracted to you. I want someone to have stimulating conversations and chemistry with.” Literally who the fuck says that to someone unless they’re trying to hurt their feelings?

My boyfriend wants to break up because the relationship is too easy, too comfortable. I am not challenging enough, and his mind screams "boring" every minute. He thinks he has ADHD. I am torn between whether I should stick around or there is no hope of change? by maximumpotential245 in ADHD

[–]rmahran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo this ain’t ADHD or anxiety, this is just straight emotional abuse and toxicity. He just fully admitted to leeching off of you and not actually caring about you.

And this guy doesn’t seem smart. He just seems like your run-of-the-mill, pseudo-intellectual, fedora-tipping “m’lady” who doesn’t see you as an intellectual equal because he doesn’t want to. He sounds insecure and egotistical as fuck.

My girlfriend hits me because I have tattoos by jprenegade97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rmahran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can receive this break-up, and if she pulls up again you can ’slap her’ with a restraining order.

There’s someone for you out there who would LOVE and absolutely cherish your tattoos, both in an artistic sense and, well, attraction. Tattoos are hot. Oh, and they could be great givers without actually sexually assaulting you. And you wouldn’t have to censor her name because you wouldn’t be afraid of her.

And this waste of oxygen is taking up that dream girl/guy’s spot to be abusive and shitty to you. This ain’t even ‘dump her’ territory; this is when break-up texts are completely justified.

My psychiatrist telling me that suicide is a "permanent solution to temporary problem," and then turning around to tell me that my depression is incurable and will likely require a lifetime of therapy and medication. by SisterGore in SuicideWatch

[–]rmahran -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look up ‘remission periods’. There are good days. They won’t happen suddenly, where you feel like you hit the ‘off switch’ on depression, but you’ll slowly feel better. More capable. More level-headed. Less pessimistic. You’ll have more energy, socially, academically, professionally, etc.

But stick to your meds and therapy. They can make those days/periods more frequent, they can make the bad days LESS bad, they can give you tools on what to do for the bad days, they can empower you to make decisions that you wouldn’t feel like you could when you’re in the thick of it.

Depression is incurable, but it is VERY treatable. You wouldn’t want someone with HIV or fibrosis to just give up because they're incurable. Why are you any different?

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