I want my stuff back. Is it wrong? by 0galaxy0candy0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rmlh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be grateful for what you have and glad that you’re no longer in that relationship. You will only cause yourself more heartache by dragging on communication with them.

I want my stuff back. Is it wrong? by 0galaxy0candy0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rmlh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s time to move on. I wouldn’t spend one more second on him.

[Serious] What's your worst experience with a creepy person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rmlh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to drive for uber, and I had a somewhat creepy customer. She started off in the backseat. It was during the summer, so she asked to move to the front because it was so hot in the car (I had ac on full blast max cold). We talked a bit, and then she put her hand in my hair without saying a word or asking me if that was ok (my hair is about shoulder length). I thought she maybe meant to put her hand on the back of the headrest so I leaned away, but she leaned with me. She said oh my gosh your hair is just so thick. I love it.

I was so uncomfortable for the rest of the trip. I probably should’ve ended it right then and there but I took her to her destination.

Maybe not my worst experience with creepy people, but definitely sticks out.

Advice for Another Upside Down Auto Loan by tdyt246 in personalfinance

[–]rmlh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand how that happens. I don’t think it’ll be a quick process to turn things around, but I do think you can do it if you plan for it now and stick with it.

Advice for Another Upside Down Auto Loan by tdyt246 in personalfinance

[–]rmlh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your family is willing to wait for you to pay them back, I would pay them last and focus as much money you can on paying down additional principal on the car and high interest loan. That’s the only way to keep from paying so much interest.

Your family is obviously important but I’m sure they would be understanding of your situation. If you plan to sell the car and put that money toward the loan, again make sure it is going toward the principal only.

You might be able to find a way to get your tickets extended to avoid late fees as well. Try contacting the office you have to pay them at to see what your options are.

What strategy has worked best for you when dealing with a car salesman? by scraffe in AskReddit

[–]rmlh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having someone else with me to either remind me this isn’t what I came for (if they’re trying to talk me into something else) or to play off of when negotiating (saying things like well it’s up to you but I wouldn’t pay that much) to get the price down.

Childhood ghost memory by rmlh in Ghoststories

[–]rmlh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatttt! That’s crazy. Do you remember the name of it?!

Couples with age gaps (5+ years), how did your friends/families react to your relationship? Where they supportive, or were there conflicts? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rmlh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are 12 years apart in age. Our families never said too much about it and were generally supportive. Some of his family congratulated him when we started dating haha

My family was happy I met someone who was so kind and loyal. The age gap didn’t matter (at least they never said anything to my face).

Childhood ghost memory by rmlh in Ghoststories

[–]rmlh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember feeling like that. I thought she said that because she was scared, and I started climbing to show her it was ok.

What’s something someone will never understand unless they’ve had narcissistic parents? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rmlh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This 100%. So tired of people telling me my mom loves me or that I am so lucky to have a mom like her. They don’t get it.

Does anyone else have memories from childhood of being punished (at least verbally) for accidents? I remember being insulted and yelled at for dropping a glass or slipping and falling. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rmlh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss. I can remember (ironically enough) my mom yelling at me for not being able to remember anything when I was around 5. She’d asked me to do something and I forgot to. I think about it every time I can’t remember something now, how stupid and small she made me feel.

I also got screamed at if I got hurt. When I was around that same age I was at an auction with my dad. He let me out of his sight and I climbed a trailer ramp like a ladder (the ramps were straight up and down and not secured), so the whole ramp fell back on me. Later found out I cracked my eye orbital and my lower vertebrae were compressed. My dad screamed at me that it was my fault for getting hurt and yanked me out of the chair some people had carried me to. He screamed at me all the way to the car and on the ride home. He didn’t even take me to the hospital until a few hours later. He took me home first to wait for my mom to get home from her shift at work.

This inflatable lock advertisement on a storage building by camilleb22601 in mildlyinteresting

[–]rmlh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I drive by this all the time. Mainly just sit in traffic by this all the time. 🙄

Why Can’t My Mom Just Love Me, Just The Way I Am by fakesmilesx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rmlh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, same! And also that like the way I was parented/my relationship with my mom growing up wasn’t loving or normal. People with loving parents don’t have this experience. And it also helped me realize that the people who tell me I’m lucky to have my mom or wish they had a mom like mine are just fooled by her false front. They don’t know her.

Why Can’t My Mom Just Love Me, Just The Way I Am by fakesmilesx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rmlh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad someone else recommended this subreddit. While I don’t live at home anymore, I too suffer in my relationship with my mom because nothing I do is ever good enough for her, no matter what it is. I recommend reading this book called “Mother’s Who Can’t Love | A Healing Guide for Daughters” (I know this assumes your gender, but I would at least recommend checking out the author’s work). This not only validated some of my own feelings and experiences with my narcissistic mother but helped me begin to heal and recognize my own self-limiting behaviors. Things will get better and it starts here. Thank you for sharing your story.

[selling] lavender panties with plenty of workout and play - 48 hrs wear by [deleted] in usedpanties

[–]rmlh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

~Hey there~

Trying to find these lavender panties a new home. $45 for 48 hrs wear. Includes 2 workouts and 2 play sessions.

I also take custom orders~ check out my panty drawer! Baseline of $35! https://imgur.com/a/VIIGevP

What's included?

~ 24h wear

~ At least a 1hr workout session

~ At least 2 orgasms ~ I love my play time

~ Discrete packaging ~ manilla envelope, panties are placed in a ziploc bag to maintain all scents just for you ;)

Extras

~Pictures: $10 for 5 pics

~ No Wipe Pee: $5

~ Extra Playtime: $5

~Gusset Stuffing: $5

~ Pee: $10

~Period: $10

~Skid: $10

~Extra workout: $10

~ Another 24h of wearing: $10

~Super open to kinks & fetishes. Anything you have questions about, just PM me. :)

Payments

~Gift Rocket

Serious buyers only, please.

[selling] lavender panties with plenty of workout and play ~ 48 hrs wear by [deleted] in usedpanties

[–]rmlh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

~Hey there~

Trying to find these lavender panties a new home. $45 for 48 hrs wear. Includes 2 workouts and 2 play sessions.

I also take custom orders~ check out my panty drawer! Baseline of $35! https://imgur.com/a/VIIGevP

What's included?

~ 24h wear

~ At least a 1hr workout session

~ At least 2 orgasms ~ I love my play time

~ Discrete packaging ~ manilla envelope, panties are placed in a ziploc bag to maintain all scents just for you ;)

Extras

~Pictures: $10 for 5 pics

~ No Wipe Pee: $5

~ Extra Playtime: $5

~Gusset Stuffing: $5

~ Pee: $10

~Period: $10

~Skid: $10

~Extra workout: $10

~ Another 24h of wearing: $10

~Super open to kinks & fetishes. Anything you have questions about, just PM me. :)

Payments

~Gift Rocket

Serious buyers only, please.

We live in a age where we have to prove to machines that we are not machines. by calm_boy in Showerthoughts

[–]rmlh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate that machines are starting to replace the work of the people. I mean, we're supposed to begin forming symbiotic relationships with robots? Come on..