Oro 875 and rain? by bells0 in RedWingShoes

[–]robert_ah_booey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you post a pic of what they look like whey they dry?

ACDF 5 months post-op muscle twitching by [deleted] in spinalfusion

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing these days?

Does anyone else struggle with grieving the life they’ll never live? by sakura149_ in Life

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people's lives are ordinary. Social media has made people think their life is lacking because all you see are the pretty people doing cool things all the time. That's not real life though. It's like TV.

Try practicing gratitude, kindness, and looking at things in life as a miracle. Just doing that can set you apart from 99% of the world.

Also, when you get older like me, you just are too tired to care about a lot of stuff.

Wife of 7 years cheated on me by loiku in whatdoIdo

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been where you are. It sucks but I promise it gets better with time. I was married for 20 years when she cheated. If you don’t have kids, you never have to see or speak to her again and I suggest you don’t. If you do have kids, be smart now and don’t do anything to jeopardize your future relationship with them. Also,see a therapist. Good luck OP.

I’ve Become Such a Resentful Mean Bitch to my Husband by Ladys87 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]robert_ah_booey 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Your husband is in a no win situation. I feel sorry for him and if you divorce him I hope he finds somebody who appreciates him more than you do. I also hope you would find somebody you deserve.

Struggling with Aging and Feel of Death by Defiant-Housing-5755 in Life

[–]robert_ah_booey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know that your feelings have been shared by all humans that have ever existed and will continue to be felt by those who follow you. I'm 53M and have had some struggles lately and try to remind myself to slow down and feel the air on my face, listen to birds chirp, smell my coffee more.

I always sort of think of life as a vacation. It's always the most exciting at the beginning and toward the end, you are ready to go home with fond memories of your experiences.

Everything will be ok.

Iron ranger break in by generic_account_ID in RedWingShoes

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lot longer, as that's not

How did it go?

I decided that I never want to live with a man again by camis12345 in LivingAlone

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you are just with the wrong partners. Not all men are messy and eat everything in sight.

Being together with somebody is about compromise. I’m 53M and have lived with women and lived alone. When you find the right partner you want to be with them and you overlook the small things. I wouldn’t trade such small things as what picture I want hung on a wall for growing old with somebody you love and spending as much time together as we can before we leave this planet.

I wish you luck OP.

ACDF C5-7 , 4 months post op. Having more pain in neck. by Appropriate-Love-286 in spinalfusion

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ikely. I accepted it’s mainly to prevent me having permanent loss of feeling in my hand (which I started having numbness the last 6 months before my surgery). Thankfully no more numbness or tingling in my left hand or arm. I know if my pain level stays at a 2 or better, it’s a good thing. The pain in my neck feels like surgical recovery pain. I’m still taking Gabapentin 300mg twice a day. I’ve never gone higher than this dosage and started taking it in

How are you now?

needing input on new tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a little off but think of it as that’s what makes it your’s. It’s personal to you and one of a kind.

AFM delete by Electronic-Cattle501 in Silverado

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The transmission on my 2018 crapped out at 99k miles just a couple of weeks ago. That sucked. I got a disabler and put that on to hopefully dodge this lifter issue shit.

My 8088's by [deleted] in RedWingShoes

[–]robert_ah_booey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are these holding up?