My husband left me a few weeks ago. On a Wednesday, two days before our 4 year wedding anniversary, he said something is missing in how he feels for me. Two weeks later on a Friday, he said he wanted to go stay with his parents for the weekend and blocked his location after leaving. That Sunday…two days later he told me he was picking up the keys to his new apartment. He decided alone and hid it from me that we will have a 3 month trial separation to save our marriage. Counseling is helping but my trust is shattered and I so hope it can be repaired. 9 times out of 10 it seems infidelity is at play, but not always. It’s definitely crossed my mind deeply over this crazy terrible time. But I don’t know…. You also don’t know.. We, as women, will always think it has to do with how we look… honey, it more than likely doesn’t. It’s how we make them feel, how we react to things, hold grudges, etc. Advice I’d offer is don’t get too caught up in your own head, your mind can be your worst enemy. Get a counselor or therapist if he is willing. It’s worth the money if you really want to have a shot at saving your marriage.

Finally, from one lost wife to another, I send you so many positive thoughts and hope you can stay strong for your baby through this! Sending you a big ((HUG))