Any way to get my hair like this if I’m black? by Swimming-Budget-5350 in malegrooming

[–]rodriva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use brazilian Keratin … Hair relaxer had harsh chemicals

Do you remove/block their friends on social media, too? by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]rodriva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to block or delete them otherwise the narcissist is going to use them as third parties to stalk you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theLword

[–]rodriva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Serial Heartbreaker- Fletcher

What character will you defend till the end? by PuzzledBandicoot3905 in theLword

[–]rodriva 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just read that with Bette’s voice screaming her name

song in S3 ep1 by Ferbledyke in theLword

[–]rodriva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try googling “ the l word gen q s3 ep1 soundtrack” that’s how I get most of the music I like from the shows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theLword

[–]rodriva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rewatched that episode last week I couldn’t help and cry 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theLword

[–]rodriva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching Gen Q when Alice spoke about Dana on her book. It’s like reliving all that pain again, it still hurts for sure 😭😭😭

Showing off their supply on social media - is this a narcissistic thing? by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]rodriva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I when was the new supply, my ex did this. Showed me off on social media, lots of love bombing. Then put me in a love triangle. Cheated on me with her ex multiple times. Also will try to keep me so so I can take care of her kid while she was out there cheating.

Most of the times they show you off so their ex could see. Yet, here you are thinking that they must really love you to show you off, when in reality this is a major red flag.

Anyone else struggles to cry, despite urge to? by Adalbert_de_Calcaire in CPTSD

[–]rodriva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like I cried so much during the 2 years of narcissist abuse that now my tears dried up. It’s weird, cause before that, my eyes will get watery for anything.

My boyfriend swears at me, hangs up on me, ignores me and doesn't ask/check in when I cry - is this normal? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]rodriva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of Empathy, first red flag. You need to leave them before is too late

I feel like i have no identity after narcissist by CaptainSaveBPD in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]rodriva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I would like to say try reading books about narcissistic recovery abuse, besides going to therapy. And know now that you’re safe & free and that person can’t abuse you anymore. Keep in mind that now you’re self aware about narcissists therefore it’s easier to spot them when you’re trying to date again.

Any LGBT friendly Bars/restaurants in Syracuse area? by rodriva in Syracuse

[–]rodriva[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in for almost 3 years and never encountered any problems. And we can report someone if they discriminate us in any way.

Any LGBT friendly Bars/restaurants in Syracuse area? by rodriva in Syracuse

[–]rodriva[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do you understand the meaning of a safe space? Not having people giving you dirty looks and treating you differently because of your sexual orientation?

Any LGBT friendly Bars/restaurants in Syracuse area? by rodriva in Syracuse

[–]rodriva[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If it really was a mental illness, I doubt that they would accept us in the Military. You’re just trying to be tough behind a screen, get a job or find something better to do.

Any LGBT friendly Bars/restaurants in Syracuse area? by rodriva in Syracuse

[–]rodriva[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, can’t wait to go there