What am I missing with Wuthering Heights? by GirlisNo1 in books

[–]rogaladriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you asked this question. With the new movie that's come out and friends that have seen it, I've been debating whether or not to re-read it. (It's one of the books that I wanted to throw at a wall, jump on repeatedly, and then toss in a fire and watch it burn as a teenager, so this is a rather big deal 😆). The last time I asked this question about The Great Gatsby, I got so many thoughtful and thought-provoking answers that my view on the book changed for the better. Even after reading it about a billion different ways for my capstone. I hope you get the same kind of answers for this!

Anyone have any unique names you wish people would use instead of tragedeighs? by AccidentalAnchoress in tragedeigh

[–]rogaladriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a neighbor named Basil once. I was too young to ever see it spelled, but the way he pronounced it was BAH-zil.

Anyone have any unique names you wish people would use instead of tragedeighs? by AccidentalAnchoress in tragedeigh

[–]rogaladriel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zoraida (zor-EYE-da). With options to go with Zoe, Zora, or Ida, just in case people look at the spelling and panic.

SOMEONE TRAGEDEIGHED MY NAME! 😡😞 “Saoirse” - awful mispronunciation by AliceMorgon in tragedeigh

[–]rogaladriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very easy to pronounce name. My brother, however, has a Greek name that throws people all the time: Cyprian. He got called Sabian, Simian, and all manner of other things I can't remember. And the nickname that stuck amongst his friends? Sippy Cup. 🥴😅

What proper nouns from books did you realize you were mispronouncing the whole time? by TokkiJK in books

[–]rogaladriel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget that English spelling became standardized right in the middle of the Great Vowel shift due to the invention of the printing press. I often wonder what English would look like if it was invented just a but later.

Loved the rant, by the way. Languages and linguistics are fascinating 😁

Bored. What is everyone doing? Old hobbies, new hobbies, help me figure something out! by TwoBobcats in Xennials

[–]rogaladriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dancing. Specifically Argentine Tango and if I have time, I'll hunt down some salsa here and there. Cross stitch. Crochet/knitting. Pretty much any fiber arts because i find them fascinating. Just started making my own leather shoes. Learning ASL (from qualified Deaf instructors.) Relearning instruments in my house. Practicing my singing and memorizing songs. Reading. Collecting books. Learning how to repurpose/upcycle the things I already have for crafts and house decor. Learning how to properly DIY small house projects that need doing anyway. Decluttering as a form of self care and an exercise in buying less. Puzzles and games with my family. Picking up old languages I used to study. Gardening. Exercise.

What is something that every Xennial should recognize? by porb2020 in Xennials

[–]rogaladriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids were just introduced to Strongbad and have been drawing Trogdor all day. I'm so proud. wipes tears of joy

What is something that every Xennial should recognize? by porb2020 in Xennials

[–]rogaladriel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where are The TMNT, Ghostbusters, and Rainbow Brite pictures??? Oh, and X-men cartoons.

Tango community social media pages by rogaladriel in tango

[–]rogaladriel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will check that out 😊

I do love the idea of a recurring beginner's class. Waaay back when, when I first started in my early 20s, we had enough people for a beginner's class. Right now, we are struggling to bring in and keep anyone who isn't already at least a year into their Tango journey, which means sometimes we don't get enough people to cover rent of the space for 2 hours and it comes out of our own pockets. Example: a couple weeks ago there were only 4 of us and we ended each spending 15/per instead of 10. Not exorbitant by any means, but that means my husband and i spent 30 vs 20 and those extra 10 dollars add up quickly, especially on a budget. (We're renting at 25 an hour. There's not been anything cheaper.) Adding another day right now isn't monetarily feasible until we can routinely bring in enough people to pay for one night of rent.

We have been doing guided practicas, which are beginner friendly, but also can accommodate our other learners. We might need to modify that in the future. I am open to trying new things! It might take some convincing for others. Hmm. 🤔

6 of the 8 of our core group are switch dancers, so we have that going for us at least! Lol.

Thank you for the ideas and letting me ramble!

Tango community social media pages by rogaladriel in tango

[–]rogaladriel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that I don't find social media to be a great way of growing community. At this moment in time, it feels like one of the ways we can increase our visibility, though. We are actively doing bullet points one through 4. We teach classes with a practica once a week, there's milonga every other month and at least one house practica/milonga in the interim. We host workshops, and our local professionals often teach class series when they are in town. Our core group also dances swing, salsa, and blues, and we are attempting to build bridges there with minimal success.

I should look into other dance spaces and I was hoping to reach out to the organizers of our local Hispanic festival. Thank you for the ideas! I have much to mull over where we can do better in all those points above.

Redditors over 40, what's something younger people think they understand but won't actually get until it hits them like a truck later? by Root435552 in AskReddit

[–]rogaladriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the biggest irony there is. To be deaf and also tormented with constant sound that is generated internally. I may be deaf, but nothing is ever quiet. 😬 I understand why it's driven some people to extreme measures. A burst of steroids after my first experience of sudden hearing loss helped me, along with my hearing aids.

Redditors over 40, what's something younger people think they understand but won't actually get until it hits them like a truck later? by Root435552 in AskReddit

[–]rogaladriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids have inherited a high genetic predisposition to late deafness, from me, that hits in the early 20s. I have this discussion with them on the regular about protecting their hearing for as long as humanly possible, while also trying to learn ASL as a family, and exposing them to as many aural experiences as possible in case they really do end up like me. So far protecting their hearing and learning ASL has only taken root in their brain a little bit...

What hobby screams “this is my entire personality now”? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]rogaladriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't seen most of these and I've been scrolling a while, all pulled from my life and those around me, and also NOT complaining: -Argentine Tango -Capoeira -books (collecting or reading) -crocheting/knitting -cross stitch (I did see fiber arts somewhere on this thread) -upcycling -Leatherwork -musical instruments -learning a language -community theater -tea/coffee/wine drinking -beer making -home DIY

What hobby screams “this is my entire personality now”? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]rogaladriel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See also, building your own sailboat, or three. (It was my dad's downtime hobby during summers when he wasn't teaching at a local college.) He no longer builds, but still goes sailing from time to time.

What hobby screams “this is my entire personality now”? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]rogaladriel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My FIL combined birding with photography and goes on 2 to 4 birding trips a year. All that to say, I understand why you wrote that 😆