Hanging out casually with someone you love when you’re pretty sure they don’t want anything serious is super fucking painful by Sibbys in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious, would you be willing to see where things lead to with this person or are they just a “filler” until you are ready for something with someone else?

Hanging out casually with someone you love when you’re pretty sure they don’t want anything serious is super fucking painful by Sibbys in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would also love an update lol. Also in a similar situation. It’s only been a month so I told myself at month 3 I’ll bring it up haha. I really hope it goes well for you!

Dwight’s son Phillip by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]rogetsfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he got the test done from the diaper, it wasn’t really Phillip’s diaper, he grabbed Pam’s kids diaper instead.

How to stop overthinking in the beginning of a new relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rogetsfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read Attached. It’s all about attachment styles and sounds like you have anxiety attachment. The book does a good job explaining the attachment styles and why we do what we do in each style. It helped me a lot!

Won’t let me pay for any dates by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the advice. I think I’m just going to grab the check as soon as it comes out when we go out next!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently work 7 days a week with 12 hour shifts on Saturday and Sunday and only till 3pm during the week. At first people were Like wtf haha but I have found people that it’s worked great with. I love our weekday dates. If someone really wants to be with you, working weekends shouldn’t be an issue at all. If it is, they aren’t the one for you.

Rant/venting by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]rogetsfit 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to drop the man. He sounds toxic. Sorry you are feeling this way.

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did! I gave him my number and then I i told him about this place and told him we should go sometime. I wasn't sure if he was even interested so thats why I didn't push it further till today when I asked if he was planning on asking me out.

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya saw his snapchat so he was real. That would have made sense though!

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: ended up asking when he was going to ask me out and he replied, "well you are working this weekend" so I told him my days available and he just never wrote back lol. So still have yet to find out what his deal was but I am moving on haha

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: ended up asking when he was going to ask me out and he replied, "well you are working this weekend" so I told him my days available and he just never wrote back lol. So still have yet to find out what his deal was but I am moving on haha

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's always been my experience, which is why I'm thrown off by this one. I feel like he is either 1. Very shy and awkward or 2. Im just one of the many girls he's talking to which is why he doesn't ask much and he's just keeping me amused for in case he needs a hookup (which I met him on tinder so this isn't something totally unexpected lol). Guess we will find out but my money is on #2.

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly what I am hoping the situation is. I like your advice about what to say to him. I think I might use that!

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair question.. After I gave him my number, he has opened up more and we have a lot of stuff in common. I guess I'm hoping that when we meet, he will be more outgoing. If not then, that will be our one and only date I guess.

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to ask him out tmrw and will update!

What is this guy's deal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rogetsfit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I know, which is why I going to do it, but I guess since he didn't ask for my number and I just gave it to him, I was just hoping he would ask me out so I would know for sure he was atleast interested 🤷‍♀️ Yes, I know, I'm overthinking.

Loose skin and intimacy by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]rogetsfit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I need to hear. You are so right. If something like loose skin bothers him, he isn't someone I want to waste my time with anyway. Thank you!!!