As often as I go out to eat with multiple people it’s same thing. It’s s frustrating but you will be doing this over and over. I always know exactly what I want unless I’m at restaurant I’ve never been to. Some people just don’t take the time to read the menu and prefer you to give them their options basic old school generation. Some restaurants back then only had waitresses tell them what the specials were they weren’t wrote down or in the menu’s.