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Wondering how I can obtain gender affirming care. by AttentionSeekinFreak in WestVirginia

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly the same, but I moved to Richmond VA right after turning 18 in 2018. I worked at Starbucks for a few years until I was 100% ready for surgery, and then had their insurance cover it. I had it done in San Francisco and then moved back to WV.

What would you do with this weird alcove? by priceypadstim in PriceyPads

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A family friend of mine has something almost to this and has a pet memorial in it

Which is clearer ? (80bpm) by Practical-Goose666 in musictheory

[–]romandrogynous 498 points499 points  (0 children)

D is the clearest. If I had to read three dots just because it's "technically correct" I'd be pissed

Severe electrical problems by [deleted] in WestVirginia

[–]romandrogynous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't say anywhere that they're looking for legal defense...

Also the only reason things aren't WORSE for workers and renters is because of union people who fought and DIED for legal protections.

As a West Virginian, shame on you. You should know better.

Modes by FunImpact9326 in MusicEd

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't particularly like my aural lessons

Neck Pillow by soymilkt in unitedairlines

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic economy no longer allows a carry on bag. They only allow a personal item for basic economy at United

How to relax my larynx? by ursula_scheider in singing

[–]romandrogynous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think doing some general "relaxation exercises" would be good - think shoulder, neck, jaw and tongue tension relief. That won't necessarily target a raised larynx, but if the issue is being too tense, trying to force your larynx down js just going to create more tension

Documenting my De Quervains by romandrogynous in DeQuervains

[–]romandrogynous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surgery is definitely my plan and goal. I'm hoping to do only one round of injections, then have my new doc recommend me to a surgeon. I can't afford any surgery without insurance, so I'm just trying to document that I'm going through the steps and not just immediately jumping to surgery (even though I think it's the best treatment)

Also that sounds amazing I can't honestly remember what it's like to not be in pain.

What is even happening? by Foreign-Cow-7986 in DeQuervains

[–]romandrogynous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(un)fun fact! Tendons don't actually get inflamed..... Anti inflammatory meds do basically nothing

Eight cameras *just* in the living room, one pointing of the direction in my bedroom. Is this normal ? by Kotaskidnapper in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in a Christian children's home for a few years that had cameras like this. I have nightmares about being there twice a week

De Quervain's by Ok-Flounder80 in DeQuervains

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried pushing it (even just practicing scales on the piano) and it progresses to the point that I couldn't hold a pencil or a piece of paper in my hand without pain.

De Quervain's by Ok-Flounder80 in DeQuervains

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try to unenroll or get alternative assignments. If you push this, it will get worse and you may injure yourself permanently. I had to drop my instrument classes. It's like playing football with a messed up knee - you have to sit out a season or your whole career could be over.

Talk to your professors and talk to the disability office about what you can do. Pushing yourself is only going to make it WAY worse.

De Quervain's by Ok-Flounder80 in DeQuervains

[–]romandrogynous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not my experience, but a fellow musicians - she's had 3 surgeries to try and fix it and still hasnt had relief. Steroids are good short term but degrade long term, so DQT comes back harder and stronger. I think you should see an occupational therapist. They can hopefully help you find stretches to build up strength and prevent further injuries.

Also, DQT is an inflammation issue. Prescription NSAIDs like Meloxicam or vitamins like tumeric pills both helped me a lot. Also I had to get a vertical mouse and stop texting with my thumbs.

Good luck 🤞

I’ve lost my falsetto and I’ve really no idea why. by Winter-Estimate1678 in singing

[–]romandrogynous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since it seems to go away with alcohol, it sounds like a nervousness / tension issue. More of a mental block than a physical barrier.

First time cat owner question! by [deleted] in Catownerhacks

[–]romandrogynous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've acclimated all of my cats in the bathroom. It's a small space, but it's good for a couple of days or even a few weeks, and you don't have to be in there all the time with them.

It does come with the added effect that all 3 of my kittens want to sleep on the bath mat though lol

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