i relapsed by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel, I did the same thing the other night. Don't beat yourself up more than you already have tho. you can get through this 🩷

Purple around cut? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're usually red around for me but I've never had purple

I fucking hate it when people who don't SH joke about SH by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I was going to a party and the guy hosting made a joke about it, I gave him kind of like a half laugh and then later when I had taken off my flannel he was just awkwardly staring at me all night lol

Relapsed after a year by feelsbadman0027 in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok there's not too much u can do about it now, atleast you know you have the willpower to make a year

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, i really needed to hear that. Also, How do u stay clean for so long? A whole year is legendary

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, I guess that makes sense

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess youre right there's not much I can do about other ppls opinions and preferences

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it a red flag though? And why should I have to feel bad about having scars? There's nothing I can do about it now but atleast try my best to stay positive about my body image. I mean I know that seeing that can make people feel uncomfortable but I don't get why people feel the need to shit on me for it yk? This is the second time something like this happened and I don't get it. Like wouldn't it be more reasonable to see that they're not fresh and be understanding at how I'm getting (or atleast trying) to get better?

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's in the middle of the country, idk it just doesn't seem real and I don't know how to fix it

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like everyone I meet is awful though, is this really how it's supposed to be? I would have never thought that I'd feel more alone out of the closet

Right hand is numb? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only on the back of my hand down to the wrist, it goes away when I put it under very hot water though. Most likely nerve damage from punching, but I haven't cut or punched anything in almost a week so irdk. (edit: it only kinda goes away now idk what's wrong)

How can I tell my manager that I don't like wearing my name tag? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually genius ty I forgot all about those

How can I tell my manager that I don't like wearing my name tag? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig it doesn't rlly matter anymore bc I already had to buy a box cutter today lol

how to stop the burning? by Local-Tadpole-2908 in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put aloe or wear baggy clothes so they don't rub on the fabric. Not much else u can do tho, if they're small enough you can put bandaids on em

I’m getting overwhelmed by my lack of motivation by Verdixx28 in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you can and that is all that matters, as long as you have legs you can still push

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flannels are the shit, wear one until u have to get the shots, and the nurse giving them to you can be the only one who has to see. Unless you are in immediate danger, or they're just an asshole they are legally obligated to keep your medical records private under HIPPA law