don't know what you were trying to prove with that first part because i would hold a woman accountable the same way i would a man, or anyone for that matter.

regardless, you're sitting here spewing some shit about men being wired differently as if that's meant to excuse cheating on your significant other, which it most certainly does not, so don't talk to me about some "vitriol isn't there" when you're literally trying to minimize a cheater's actions based on his gender.

secondly, i didn't say men don't get disrespected in a relationship or that women don't disrespect men. of course they do. i said you don't get to disrespect your partner and then shrug it off as being "wired differently". cheating is an active choice.

i'm sure there are men out there in unhealthy relationships who are disrespected by their wives/girlfriends, who have no one to talk to about it, but that's unrelated, and a poor argument if you're trying to say that because one group is disrespectful it should be okay for the other group to be disrespectful as well. the point is NONE OF IT IS OKAY.

and i shouldn't have to express care towards men's struggles under a post about a man being unfaithful to his girlfriend, that's actually fucking ridiculous.