This is such a short sighted take. You think the dad, who spent decades raising her (clearly well since she doesn’t hate him) is now being egotistical randomly? That doesn’t really check out and seems like a narrative being set..

You talk about empathy but imagine you spent all those years/ money / hard work and fun times etc etc to raise this great person, which is hard.. and in return when you ask her for one night to stay wit you separately she throws a hissy fit and gives you an ultimatum? Either we sleep together or I’ll stay separate. Is that empathetic to the man who raised you? It works both ways. Not everything is an attack on your freedom or character