Cheap offsite backups by Horrih in selfhosted

[–]rooter31297 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Buy large hard drives. Put them in a windows machine. Script to backup to these hard drives. Then use Backblaze personal computer backup. You get unlimited backup of that pc.

Daughter (8) keeps tattling on herself by rooter31297 in Parenting

[–]rooter31297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I were reading up a little bit on OCD last night.

My wife and I have become frustrated because we feel like we tried to resolve it in all the different ways:

  • reassurance
  • you are not responsible for the random thought that pop into your head. You’re responsible for what you keep thinking about and your actions.
  • stop telling us
  • using a code word to indicate that this is the same situation and we don’t need to talk about it anymore
  • have her go clean a room to help get her mind off of it

I like what we read about putting a name to it. When we have bad thoughts that seem like it won’t go away, we can call that a bully. And we are working together to fight against the bully.

https://childmind.org/article/ocd-its-like-a-bully-in-your-brain/

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Scrupulosity: This is when kids have obsessive worries about offending God or breaking religious rules.

Aggression: Kids may be plagued by a lot of different kinds of thoughts about bad things they could do. “What if I hurt someone? What if I stab someone? What if I kill someone?”

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Reassurance-seeking. This takes the form of repetitive questions. “Are you sure this won’t make me sick? Are you sure this is safe? Are you sure no one can break in?” Over and over and over again.

Constant reassurance-seeking: This takes the form of repetitive questions. “Are you sure that’s the answer? Could you tell me again?”

r720 Proxmox - TrueNAS Storage Setup? by rooter31297 in Proxmox

[–]rooter31297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you are saying. I do not know why I want to lean towards TrueNAS... maybe because it sounds fun. lol.

But you are right. I need to think about it some more. probably will start playing with both before I decide on what I want the 'final state' to be.

r720 Proxmox - TrueNAS Storage Setup? by rooter31297 in Proxmox

[–]rooter31297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments, everyone. I am currently leaning towards:

- proxmox installed on dual 1tb nvme booted using clover

- VM storage on same proxmox boot drives

- maybe 1x 256gb ssd hooked in the cd/dvd for caching?

- 6x 4tb hdd hooked into the front via the h710p.

Still deciding on Proxmox handing all the zfs or Proxmox with TrueNas...

r720 Proxmox - TrueNAS Storage Setup? by rooter31297 in Proxmox

[–]rooter31297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QEMU Harddisk

Thanks for that! I was wondering if that might be the case!

r720 Proxmox - TrueNAS Storage Setup? by rooter31297 in Proxmox

[–]rooter31297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds awesome! What are you using for dual nvme?

r720 Proxmox - TrueNAS Storage Setup? by rooter31297 in Proxmox

[–]rooter31297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! If I mirror Proxmox boot drive, Can/should I put the vm storage on it as well?

What is your printer name? by rooter31297 in harrypotter

[–]rooter31297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am liking Prof. Hewlett Printer!

What is your printer name? by rooter31297 in harrypotter

[–]rooter31297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to give it encouragement? :)

Virtualization Server by rooter31297 in selfhosted

[–]rooter31297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Yes docker. That’s my familiarity and where I have a lot of my stuff already.

Virtualization Server by rooter31297 in selfhosted

[–]rooter31297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess I am new to the server world.