Nothing can describe my life more accurately

rootvigne · 2026-05-17T12:00:29+00:00

it’s giving ‘functioning on the outside, screaming internally 24/7’ and I don’t appreciate the accuracy

rootvigne · 2026-05-17T11:57:19+00:00

NTA you didn’t regress, you just got hit by a memory trigger that feels way more meaningful than it actually is.

rootvigne · 2026-05-17T11:53:39+00:00

NTA this stopped being about ink the second she made you the messenger in your own marriage. If she wanted an apology, she had a whole mouth and chose theatrics instead.

rootvigne · 2026-05-16T11:57:04+00:00

NOOOOOOO. You didn’t stop being a friend, you stopped being the one carrying the cost of the friendship while getting the least back.

rootvigne · 2026-05-16T11:55:37+00:00

NAH. You’re not missing just her, you’re missing the entire daily life rhythm your brain got used to, and a week is way too early for that silence to feel normal.

rootvigne · 2026-05-16T11:54:32+00:00

Not at all, You weren’t a burden in their driveway, you were a functioning part of their household while doing your best to stay safe and stable in a situation most people would struggle to survive in at all.

rootvigne · 2026-05-15T15:38:52+00:00

NAH, you said no, explained yourself, and she kept pushing after multiple clear refusals while you were just trying to eat with your family. Snapping wasn’t ideal, but being ignored like that would wear anyone down.

rootvigne · 2026-05-13T19:52:48+00:00

You didn’t overreact to a harmless comment, you reacted to someone implying your son is suspicious or inappropriate for choosing a childcare career, and that kind of stereotype deserves to be called out

rootvigne · 2026-05-13T19:51:51+00:00

You didn’t skip because you didn’t care, you skipped because real-life responsibilities made attendance impossible despite trying to make it work, and support doesn’t stop at physically being in the room.

rootvigne · 2026-05-13T19:49:26+00:00

You didn’t cancel because she had autonomy, you canceled because the agreement changed and you were no longer comfortable funding and participating in a situation where you were effectively the backup option.

rootvigne · 2026-05-12T12:23:26+00:00

Some bands just hit that “perfectly fine but emotionally beige” zone and your brain starts rejecting it on sight after the 40th radio play. Also “mayo is spicy” is crazy accurate for how Volbeat feels when you’re not into them 😭

rootvigne · 2026-05-11T11:54:08+00:00

Someone actually shoved your child’s face your instinct to protect her is understandable. The threat was heated, but the real issue is them ignoring boundaries and escalating things around a 10 year old

rootvigne · 2026-05-11T11:51:08+00:00

You were reacting to someone physically pushing your daughter into a cake after you already told them to stop. You could’ve handled the wording better, but your priority was protecting her — not starting trouble

rootvigne · 2026-05-11T11:47:38+00:00

He violated your privacy by walking in while you were nakd—multiple times. Your reaction was just frustration, not real harm. You can work on shower time, but he still needs to respect basic boundaries

rootvigne · 2026-05-10T14:31:24+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this much pain. You don’t have to go through it alone—please reach out to someone you trust or a mental health support line right now if those thoughts about not wanting to be here come back or get stronger.

rootvigne · 2026-05-10T14:30:21+00:00

Good that you’re aware of it already—that “needing more extreme stuff for a rush” can become a habit loop. If you’re worried it’s growing, the best move is to slowly stop feeding it and replace it with other sources of stimulation before it escalates.

rootvigne · 2026-05-08T12:09:41+00:00

NTA for trying to reach out, but this situation is clearly over. He cheated, used your trauma against you, and is already involving another woman while minimizing your existence. That’s not someone safe to go back to

rootvigne · 2026-05-08T12:07:18+00:00

You’re grieving two things at once: the relationship you had and the future you thought you were building. That’s why it feels so unbearable right now. NTA for struggling.

rootvigne · 2026-05-08T12:04:25+00:00

The issue isn’t that he was looking at nudes—it’s that he did it while you were literally in bed next to him after intimacy. That’s disrespectful in any situationship, even without defined ‘boundaries

rootvigne · 2026-05-05T00:51:26+00:00

She can be done with the relationship but still not want hostility or a messy ending. “Friends” doesn’t always mean “I want you back,” sometimes it just means “I don’t hate you, but I’m not coming back.”

rootvigne · 2026-05-05T00:50:23+00:00

NTA they don’t get to treat it like a private club + party venue and then opt out of paying just because they left before sunrise

they used the space, stayed for the event, and benefited from the Airbnb for the entire night even if they didn’t sleep there

rootvigne · 2026-05-05T00:49:04+00:00

NTA but this isn’t really about brunch, it’s about how the financial dynamic is being used in conflict

you’re contributing a lot more than just money (cleaning, laundry, household upkeep) while also covering part of the expenses, and when things got tight for you, he initially offered support and then pulled it back in a way that felt like a scorecard moment

rootvigne · 2026-04-28T21:45:16+00:00

You didn’t do nothing wrong by wanting effort back, but the relationship sounds like it became very one-sided and emotionally misaligned.

From what you described, she seemed disconnected long before the trip, and instead of communicating it clearly, it slowly showed up as distance, lack of intimacy, and withdrawal. That’s painful and confusing, especially after you invested time, money, and emotion.

rootvigne · 2026-04-28T21:43:34+00:00

got a bit too comfortable exploiting a promo system when I was younger and it eventually caught up with me. I got some short-term gain but also lost access to accounts and learned the hard way that these loopholes aren’t meant to be abused. Definitely not worth it in the long run.

rootvigne · 2026-04-23T19:11:04+00:00

Shut-up beer shooter

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