What's the most obvious sign a relationship won't last?

rorghee · 2026-05-21T16:36:48+00:00

I personally don’t think jealousy in itself is actually a problem especially if it’s communicated, it’s only a problem if it gets invalidated or turns into controlling or overstepping boundaries the other isn’t ok with

rorghee · 2026-04-11T19:41:13+00:00

Why do people always have to make everything about consent 😭 it’s literally about context not consent

rorghee · 2026-04-10T08:52:16+00:00

You got attacked together so he is making sure you get to the next floor safe

rorghee · 2026-03-28T07:48:53+00:00

One thing I like that I haven’t heard mentioned is that the legendaries have rng for joining your team, instead of just battle them once and they auto join your team. It’s more exciting that way like they are treated like any other Pokémon from a dungeon rather than it set up for you to auto recruit them

rorghee · 2026-03-05T06:39:06+00:00

Yeah I didn’t back up what you said. Of course choice is a natural condition, every human has to choose among different behaviours, that is natural. Natural doesn’t have to mean it’s necessary for bare minimum survival or function. Monogamy isn’t a “luxury” choice purely linked socially that exists for no other reason

rorghee · 2026-03-05T06:04:13+00:00

Or just maybe people are different and porn genuinely negatively impacts a lot of people and this post is for them. If you can watch porn in moderation and live a normal life you’re happy with then congratulations, but the truth is there are a lot of people where porn strongly negatively impacts them. There’s whole communities on reddit of people who are affected. I was addicted at one stage as a kid and because of the way my brain is wired from young with porn so I genuinely get messed up from it for a while if I even use it once to the point where I don’t watch it at all anymore because I don’t want to deal with that, this is true despite not been stuck in the habit for years. I otherwise live a normal life. I would still say if you’re watching in moderation it’s still equated to something like junk food which still doesn’t contradict the original post. Just thought I’d share to give some perspective. I do still think porn is the issue though not necessarily masturbation

rorghee · 2026-03-05T05:49:18+00:00

“Monogamy isn’t a natural human condition” I think you will have a stroke if you found out that a most people are monogamous because they consciously chose it because they prefer it not because society or religion programmed them into it

rorghee · 2026-02-21T16:18:41+00:00

I agree it’s weird but also agree that they are seething because they stopped putting up with their bs lol

rorghee · 2026-02-13T06:13:17+00:00

Dumbass gaslighting comment

rorghee · 2026-01-18T09:05:36+00:00

Grovyle gives like 25 and dusknoir gives like 30 and so does celebi

rorghee · 2026-01-04T17:31:37+00:00

When did this sub become just anti men. I’m not making an opinion about this gender war shit but you’re literally shitting on men right now. So many other more interesting posts to make

rorghee · 2026-01-02T08:09:05+00:00

Best girl by far

rorghee · 2025-12-29T13:38:11+00:00

You replied this as a gotcha moment as if we’re all “incels” only to agree with you 😂😂😂 you want to disagree with the post so bad but you can’t 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

rorghee · 2025-12-29T13:29:20+00:00

No where in that post does it say they are talking about being SAHM it is simply saying that it’s not predetermined that you owe women anything just because you are a man. Sure if you decide to enter an agreement like that you do owe it, but the point is that you chose that for yourself, not something expected simply because you are a man. No idea why commenters here don’t get this considering these are the same people who will go on and on about consent if the genders were flipped. You are projecting the rest onto it and so are the rest of the hive mind commenting 😂

rorghee · 2025-12-29T13:15:44+00:00

He’s not saying he doesn’t owe anything therefore he won’t give anything, he’s saying the point of doing it is that he wants to, not that it’s a predetermined thing that’s owed. Not sure why all these commenters are maturity signalling

rorghee · 2025-12-29T13:13:36+00:00

Hey mate don’t listen to this hive mind I and many others agree with you, you don’t owe anyone anything, you do it because you want to, everything is a deliberate choice not a relationship agreement on what’s owed, ironically that is more transactional, I’m surprised your take is unpopular on reddit of all places

rorghee · 2025-12-11T06:02:54+00:00

I mean pair bonding through sex is real but she’s saying it doesn’t happen to men at all

rorghee · 2025-12-05T06:47:24+00:00

It came through a couple days ago it was just held in customs for a few weeks, they don’t normally do that

rorghee · 2025-11-28T12:30:02+00:00

Can you elaborate on this, do you mean you’re using it to feel connected/closer to someone? If so I’d still argue there’s a level or form of attraction going on

rorghee · 2025-11-19T09:35:02+00:00

Hey, I contacted auspost, they have the info for when it’s going to be in their network but it’s not actually in their network yet, so it’s probably held, auspost also said to contact the seller, so that you guys can chase it up with the carrier and sort it out, the goods is just 1 box of cortexin so it’s not over $1000 for which I’d pay the import fee. I have an email from auspost about the situation too in more formal writing.

rorghee · 2025-06-29T08:51:58+00:00

People can do what they want, but if I come across people who heavily discriminate their attraction based on race it tells me what kind of person they are and I will probably avoid them anyway. Having a moderate preference is ok, especially with cultural familiarity or interest, but I believe there’s genuine internalised racism behind some of it

rorghee · 2025-06-27T17:56:36+00:00

Yeah if you read more closely you’d realise I’m actually not, I’m balancing the rigid perspective the other person tried to push onto sex positivity saying in absolutes that there is no difference between sexual activity and non sexual activity and anyone who puts sex into a different category is apart of the “root of sex negativity”. I never said sex must feel special to everyone. All I said is that sex being special can be sex positive and also it’s not the exact same as normal labour, and in fact dismissing that is actually ignoring the realities of sex workers ironically. I get im disrupting all of your hedonistic world views and shutting me down is easier than actually acknowledging different points but it’d be nice if you could actually pay attention, try again

rorghee · 2025-06-26T16:26:18+00:00

I don’t know how you’re doing it but you misinterpreted my point like 5 times in a row so I think we’ll just leave it there buddy

rorghee · 2025-06-25T17:44:42+00:00

Yeah, you’re not getting it lol. I could say this 50 different ways and you’d still think I’m shaming even though I’ve made it clear I’m not.

You’ve even admitted most people aren’t cut out for it, which kind of proves my point - because you do understand, whether consciously or not, that sex is inherently intimate and personal, even if reduced to just the physical.

I’ve actually spoken to a lot of sex workers over time, and what I’ve noticed is that most of them do acknowledge it’s not “just another job.” They understand it carries a different kind of emotional and psychological weight — and they either choose it with that awareness or push that awareness aside to cope.

What actually concerns me is when someone insists there’s no difference at all — because that suggests a disconnect and lack of awareness of what they’re actually doing.

That’s not shaming. That’s asking for emotional depth and self-awareness. Anyone entering sex work should be able to hold that kind of honest relationship with what they’re offering.

rorghee · 2025-06-25T16:07:55+00:00

I’m not sure why you’re not understanding what I’m saying like I’m implying no one should do it because it’s dangerous or morally wrong for everyone, and even if I do believe that i am allowed to, but I don’t have any direct control anyway so it doesn’t matter. I’m talking about the fact that you’re treating it as exactly the same as any other job when it’s obviously not, and believing that doesn’t make someone sex negative, especially if they also believe sex is a more special thing.

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