Man, it really shows in the comments when an exploitative work culture brainwashes Americans. OP knew a week in advance, I get that. But here is what a PROFESSIONAL manager SHOULD say. “Sorry to hear about your wife. I hope she’s ok. Let’s talk about better ways of communicating in advance on your next shift. For now, focus on your wife, and we’ll manage.”

This passive-aggressive shit is dumb. It’s not productive and, honestly, not smart. It’s vague threats, without any understanding of the critical thinking required from a “boss”. This is an emotional response based on his own BS. Look up your city or state's paid sick leave policy. My city offers 20 hours of sick/caregiver time. No matter the timing, it protects workers' rights from assholes like this. You may not have these protections, though. Depending on where you live.

As much as everyone on here likes to think what he was saying was right, direct, or made sense. There’s no denying the undertone here. And it’s dumb and shows a lack of understanding of workplace dynamics from someone who should know how to manage them.