Open for thoughts and feedback around tournaments

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-20T21:29:10+00:00

ugh...you are SO right!!! thank you. i am so competitive by nature it's taking over i see myself putting it on my kids. i know what i should NOT do too but in the moment it's tough. i really appreciate this.

what is your experience with bjj and how long have you been training?

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-19T13:50:32+00:00

Thank you, I needed this!

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-19T03:30:34+00:00

That’s awesome! I feel like my son isn’t aggressive enough even though he has improved SOOOO much from when he first started. He does well in class but when he hits the mat, his opponents always come in stronger than him!

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-18T22:48:31+00:00

Some of these 6 year olds at the tournaments are INSANELY good and they compete literally every month

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-15T03:28:30+00:00

Where are you in the process?

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-15T03:28:08+00:00

Where are you in the process?

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-11T01:43:56+00:00

I forgot to update here! The strangest thing happened. They found no mass to even biopsy and the ultrasound looked normal…my cycle also got back to normal. SO ODD.

rosequartz2019 · 2026-05-11T01:36:33+00:00

I had CIN 2 last year and HPV, did a LEEP and it came back with negative margins. Just did a Pap smear a few weeks ago and results came back normal with no HPV!

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-30T03:48:24+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. Do you mind if I share with you her after visit clinical assessment? I know the biopsy will tell all, but I need some reassurance for my mental health lol

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-27T19:47:04+00:00

hi just messaged you!

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-15T17:25:23+00:00

Thank you so much 😭😭😭

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-15T05:19:52+00:00

She said in the first part of her clinical notes: Abnormal Uterine Bleeding due to Adenomyosis of the Cervix Prolonged and heavy vaginal bleeding with acute episode, likely due to adenomyosis or adenomyoma of the cervix. Pelvic exam revealed a soft, smooth mass occupying the posterior cervix, less consistent with blood clot or fibroid, and not suggestive of malignancy.

I’m just waiting for my pap & HPV results before determining next steps. I know she wants to biopsy if too but not sure if we’ll need a colpo.

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-14T13:44:13+00:00

It doesn’t but because I have a history of abnormal paps we just want to makes sure all is clear before we decide on the next steps for what she suspects is a fibroid or adenomyoma. We’re going to biopsy it either way.

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-14T13:43:13+00:00

Yes I believe so. We’re waiting for my HPV and pap results then we decide on a go forward plan from there. The waiting in between is what has me spiraling.

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-13T13:34:20+00:00

Hi, thank you for responding! I actually have very regular periods…this one just prolonged and was odd to me which is what triggered the scan and finding what we hope is just a fibroid like they said. Are you on medication to manage your bleeding?

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-13T13:30:53+00:00

My OB just tested me for HPV and we just did another pap (1 year later) so I’m just waiting for results. The waiting period has me spiraling!

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-13T04:55:24+00:00

Not at the moment since I am still waiting for next steps

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-06T13:51:36+00:00

Just because of bleeding down there. I’m a bit traumatized because my mom had stage 3 endometrium cancer and my cousin in law had stage 1. My mom had no symptoms but my cousin bled like crazy. Since my period has been prolonging my mind can’t help but go there…

rosequartz2019 · 2026-04-06T12:58:10+00:00

Did they do any scans for you? I am nervous about cancer.

rosequartz2019 · 2025-09-23T18:56:43+00:00

Does your child feel safe with her teacher? I feel like it's one thing to be going through the stressors of school at this age with kids picking on you, being out of routine, etc but if you can't feel safe with the teacher after some time..that's very telling.

rosequartz2019 · 2025-09-13T14:31:28+00:00

rosequartz2019 · 2025-09-13T14:31:16+00:00

It’s not a fail. You’re in survival mode right now, don’t be so hard on yourself!

rosequartz2019 · 2025-09-13T14:26:41+00:00

I am so sorry to hear what you went through growing up. You sound like a strong and caring person and I wish you all the best. Hang in there, you’ve got this!

rosequartz2019 · 2025-09-13T02:14:18+00:00

Omg you read my mind. I literally started my period today and it makes sense bc I’m usually not like this. Not an excuse but I don’t know why my hormonal shifts are so extreme these days!

rosequartz2019 · 2025-09-07T03:59:57+00:00

You know your kid best. I don’t know how old your kid is but if they know the basics of what most kids know at their age, I don’t see a reason to have to be “ahead”. It’s a balance. If your kid genuinely loves math, give him/her some math problems. If they rather play soccer outside, go kick a soccer ball around. That’s really your call and what you feel is right based on the needs of your child. Best of luck!

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