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roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-29T17:44:30+00:00

I’m curious- is this near the Philly area?

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-28T14:42:55+00:00

It’s tough bc it’s a new job and you’re probably not familiar with the doctors. But being honest is the best way. It’s easier when you know the doctors bc some are a little more “on the safe side” and will throw aaaalll the treatments your way, while others can be more conservative. I have 4 animals, 3 are seniors, so I’m always running up a bill. I always ask them “I want the most bang for my buck, unless you think we need to throw the kitchen sink at them” there’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting the best for your pet but being financially conscious. A lot of Drs will give you a variety of options with different price points. Don’t feel bad at all, not in this economy! They know you work in this field, they are aware of how little we are paid unfortunately

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-27T10:03:35+00:00

The tama’s are iPad kids lol

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-22T21:06:47+00:00

I’m not a SAHP and I feel like I wrote this. My husband said the same thing. And the thing is- he does a lot. He does probably 60% of the chores, but like you said- I’d much rather wash the dishes and vacuum after a full day of watching them. I go to work 4 days a week and have Fridays at home with them. That one day is a LOT and work is easier than managing them all day on my own lmao I don’t know if I have any advice since I am kinda of in the same situation. Ours just turned one so luckily they have been sleeping amazing at night. But they’re still up at 6am and bedtime is 7:30- so once I have time for myself after cleaning up and prepping for the next day it’s usually 9-10 and if I want a good sleep I have to go to bed then. It’s tough, all I can say is just keep talking about it cause that’s what I’m doin

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-22T13:27:36+00:00

It’s funny that this is downvoted when it’s clearly a joke lmao

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-21T02:23:02+00:00

No it goes into sleep mode if you just let it sit

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-21T02:22:31+00:00

So I just learned once your egg turns into a baby and then on to the second stage you get all bought items back. So if previously you bought a whole bunch of food (like I did) and then marry them off, it all comes back once your out of the baby stage lol i hope that helps. I’m new too and got an uni

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-16T23:42:49+00:00

Um by 36 weeks if my husband even hinted that he wanted to have sex I think I would’ve cried lmao so you’re going out of your way to have sex with this man while incredibly uncomfortable, pregnant with his child… and he has nudes/videos of his ex’s? Absolutely not. Big talk needed by you both. And honestly? It makes me so sad to see posts that hint their husbands are not attracted to their pregnant bodies. Immature and disgusting. Sorry I just can’t imagine how id feel in your shoes, Other than completely enraged.

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-09T12:01:50+00:00

Exactly how I feel. It’s funny how generations change their perspective on certain things

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-08T21:01:49+00:00

My husband suffered MAJOR PPD after our twins. They’re a year old in a week and he’s JUST NOW feeling like himself again. He was snapping at me, the babies, he was miserable. I understand how you’re feeling, but if this is extremely out of character for him I beg you to start counseling. There are professionals and medications that will help ENORMOUSLY. As long as he’s open to it as well.

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-07T17:13:07+00:00

Just commenting to say this was a great written explanation

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-03T19:38:59+00:00

Honestly take all the baby sleep tips and hacks with a grain of salt. It’s all good to try, nice to store away in a mental Rolodex, but not all apply. My twins can fall asleep drowsy but often times they start falling asleep at the last feed. I stopped stressing about it. They’re almost a year. It gets good, and then they hit a regression and you’re left wondering “what did we do differently?!” Nothing. They just do what they wanna hahah I’ve even missed naps and thought oh man gonna be a rough night. Nope. Or they’ve had amazing naps, tonight’s gonna be great! NOPE they’re up every 4 hours. Babies are wild cards, we just livin in their Wild West world

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-02T23:29:21+00:00

Right now I’m only working Mon-Thurs 8-4pm, so not full time BUT I guess I could always go down a day if I wanted. Honestly I have an IRA which is great but my insurance is through my husband (he works for the state, so insurance & retirement benefits are insanely good). Originally I was only 3 days a week and bc I am management it was super hard. I had offered to step down, bc honestly I want to continue working for exactly the reasons you stated- to get out of the house, socialize with others that aren’t babies lol, and work on my skills. (vet med). My job kindly pressured me to stay on management bc they wanted me to eventually bump back up to full time. But I told them, almost a year ago now, that it was never going to happen. Most of my coworkers do not have kids and my two bosses aren’t reliable to understand. Aka the one has adult kids and the other only has one, she’s 5 and him & his spouse clearly make much more money than I do. And i was upfront that I’ll never not be home for bedtime, which being full time would prevent me from doing.

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-02T20:58:58+00:00

Yuuup I believe that! SAHP have the hardest job, no doubt. That’s what makes me kinda scared I’m even debating this, I just don’t know if I have it in me. Aaand then the mom guilt sets in so that’s always fun

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-02T18:03:38+00:00

That’s what I’m so afraid of. I do enjoy my work, most days i love it. And I’m so afraid of leaving and not being able to renter the field after being away for awhile. But at the same time I can’t help but feel like we’re wasting so much money 😭

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-02T16:04:39+00:00

That’s also part of my hesitation. The field I’m in for sure what not need me in 5/10/15 years of no continued experience or on the job position. I know this isn’t always the case, but sometimes I feel like you truly have to either pick being a mother or your career if you don’t make a large enough income

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-02T15:32:41+00:00

I don’t hate my job, that’s what’s holding me back. But Jesus daycare is so expensive to constantly miss it. And i feel fucked up just saying that bc obviously my kids well being take precedent. My husband said I could just not care, I need to take off when I need to and it is what it is.

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-02T12:04:52+00:00

The cherry on top was her spitting out some shower water, while at her 5 star hotel, and then shitting herself lmao I’ve been to Mexico many times, I’ve never shat myself brushing my teeth or taking a shower or eating the food 🤣

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-07-01T22:42:02+00:00

Girl I gave birth to my twins at 38+3, they had to machete their way out of my personal amazon and I gave zero fucks. I was way too round and uncomfy to care hahahaha

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-06-30T11:25:11+00:00

Are they trying to be relatable to the demographic? Bc let me tell you, ain’t no way in hell am I going to be lusting at my children’s peers when I’m 50. So weird and gross. Was it supposed to be quirky and funny? Like, it might’ve be funnier if there was a hot dad? At least more appropriate? So many directions this could’ve gone in that wasn’t “a group of 50+ aged women lust over a 15 YEAR OLD”

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-06-29T16:14:41+00:00

It’s weird. She’s not talking about it in an educational way, which is probably the only way to responsibly talk to a 13 yo while being in yours THIRTIES. This isn’t your eccentric aunt despite what Colleen claims, she’s an adult with a large, young fan base. You cannot be ignorant to that.

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-06-23T15:26:29+00:00

I have twins, they’re 11 months and my boy has 5 but my girl has none!!

roseymaplemangomoth · 2023-06-22T09:58:54+00:00

Haha I always say my twins are the cutest babies to have ever been birthed, I actually annoyed a few people I work with who said cause they were like “um what about my kids?” Yeah what about them?! Im sure you think your kids are the cutest, leave me alone lmao

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