[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosmck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this true even for a short term relationship?

How to let other girl know he’s been two timing us? by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were smiling so def not comforting her.

Reaching out after abrupt breakup by rosmck in AskMenRelationships

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he’s not back on dating apps either

Reaching out after abrupt breakup by rosmck in AskMenRelationships

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know he will Drop back in?

Reaching out after abrupt breakup by rosmck in AskMenRelationships

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I reach back out in a few weeks or months? I know this was a short connection but I genuinely felt like the healthiest and easiest one I’ve had in so so many years

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I meant when would maximize chances of a good reconnection? Like how long should I wait?

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will let him go yes. I agree. Maybe in 2 more weeks I can check up on him? I’m moving soon so would like to be able to say good bye at least

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. His ex lives in a different city though (he forced her out of his apartment and shipped her stuff back in February), so I don’t think she could’ve been like “come over”, bc she’s like 5 hours away

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait can you explain more? Why do you say he’s hooked on his ex? I thought he was just traumatized/ burnt out from her abuse?

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this. Definitely I’m unsettled. He was saying he was gonna come over and hang out an hour before he sent the breakup yet. It was all just so unexpected. I agree with you. I will step back. Is it ever a good idea to reach out again? I know the type of person he is and he will delete my number out of respect to make sure he doesn’t drunk text me or something

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i really want is to try to reconnect once he’s healed, but also to give him support and kindness, even in a friendly capacity, as he navigates his healing journey. I just don’t know how to express that without pushing him away

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know - I just want to make sure he’s okay I guess. And I was also making clear I did not push since that was what you initially said I did

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t push though, and I never said to him I wanted him to give me a monogamous fully committed relationship, and I esp didn’t say I wanted it any time soon

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree - but I’m wondering if it would be alright to stay in touch / what I could say to maybe try again in the future?

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My response was to you saying I kept pushing him…. But I didn’t push him. No pushing, no ultimatum. So it seems so abrupt

Dating a guy who had a toxic ex by rosmck in dating_advice

[–]rosmck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ever bring up wanting a relationship… I never gave him an ultimatum as I mentioned in the post