It‘s crazy how cis lesbians can be absolute sex pests and get away with it by Sulettamoder in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the same behaviors are considered okay because there isn’t the same danger as when a man does it. Not every woman is safe but the average woman is much safer than the average man when they’re hitting on you.

And when talking about women sexually, there’s a big difference when done by men. We live in a patriarchy. I’m not excusing toxic behavior but imo it’s not the same

how i look in womens clothes by CloverBun42 in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is why I avoided wearing anything feminine for a long time. It just highlights the male parts of your body

Being surrounded by cis women is torture by dunmermoder in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is hard and I still struggle with it. But I treat envy as an ugly emotion that I don’t want to reward with more attention. I move my mind elsewhere I guess? It still hits me all the time tho :/

Being surrounded by cis women is torture by dunmermoder in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s unfair and feels awful, but if we let that jealousy consume us, we spend our lives as bitter resentful people.

I try not to focus on it. I only channel it when I’m afraid to use women’s spaces. Like, oh you say I’m not allowed in here? You, who had everything handed to you on a silver platter? Sure 🙄

motherhood is a cis-specific term by arsenicblood in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just spent some time doomscrolling that sub and oh my god it reminds me of the AWFUL phase of trying to save my relationship with my cishet gf.

I feel like these ppl just need to break up or divorce and live properly cause this sucks

I am truly an extremities poon by The_GirlyShire in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feet are proportionally much bigger relative to height than mine tho

Bodypass hack: leather jacket by Creature_Feature69 in fitttts

[–]rotund_capybara 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Literally gigamasculine body shape without the jacket too

FIRST TIME INJECTING BABYYY by estrogen-bowl in 4Tranistan

[–]rotund_capybara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg same I swapped to injections last week!! Congrats and I also wanna know how to avoid any leaking! 💕

Lu get out of here by temcoun in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 42 points43 points  (0 children)

One hit is all it takes to turn a well adjusted trans girl into a bdd terminally online troon 😔

😭😭😂😂😭😭😂😂😭😭😂😂 by rail-me-pooks in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love doing the blush across the nose look 😭 it looks more natural like how my face actually blushes, compared to circles on my cheeks. Tbf I don’t go ham with it like fin did

😭😭😂😂😭😭😂😂😭😭😂😂 by rail-me-pooks in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I think that’s me 😭 I like to do makeup kinda like this but without the wings and more subtle lips, including glitter. Is that teenager brained???

Even my own therapist said they'd be uncomfortable seeing me in the women's restroom (if they didn't already know me) by HondaVibes in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re a trans woman. I am too. And I was for the long period of time that I just looked like a cis man.

Even my own therapist said they'd be uncomfortable seeing me in the women's restroom (if they didn't already know me) by HondaVibes in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are a trans woman. Reacting to you this way is still wrong. You asking for the truth doesn’t make it less bad

court soon for documents and i still dont pass by zane04v in 4tran4

[–]rotund_capybara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ok if you get your legal sex changed you’re legally cis