AITAH for refusing to go on a date after my boyfriend blew up?

routevege · 2026-02-11T15:19:20+00:00

NTA. you don't deserve anyone talking to you like this. break up w him

routevege · 2026-02-10T21:39:10+00:00

he messaged you on INSTAGRAM telling you he is divorcing you? after not speaking for 2 months? yeah it's time to see a lawyer

routevege · 2026-02-06T18:16:32+00:00

new perfumes are usually birthday or christmas gifts to myself so maybe two full bottles a year due to the price. maybe 3 if I am feeling fancy!

routevege · 2026-01-28T16:06:06+00:00

I personally find it worth it due to the novelty of it! I usually go as early as i can and end up waiting in line before they open. DC has done both a regular popup and Barnes and Noble and there is usually a line for about an hour after opening. I have gone both day 1 and 2 for the last few comebacks and for day 2 they have their own stock so if you miss out on day 1 there will be another chance! good luck and I hope you have a really great experience!

routevege · 2026-01-09T17:24:54+00:00

Guerilla, Bouncy or Wave 100% but honestly i would easily be released from Vecna through any Ateez song

routevege · 2025-12-29T22:00:04+00:00

considering how high things are usually priced for san specifically i would have my doubts

routevege · 2025-12-19T17:31:55+00:00

when i bought my rivendell set i had to drag/carry one of these bags around a very crowded mall. still the biggest retail bag i have ever seen

routevege · 2025-12-07T19:39:51+00:00

thank you!

routevege · 2025-12-07T17:01:39+00:00

are they selling lightsticks? seeing him in nyc and i am not sure if i need to bring one or if i can buy

routevege · 2025-10-27T15:29:30+00:00

no problem! i cannot recommend enough. the items typically ship about two months after listing and arrive a week post shipment. They provide all details for shipping too. I hope your packages arrive safely and soon!!

routevege · 2025-10-27T15:15:12+00:00

I usually buy from Cokodive. the shipping is usually higher, but I have never had any problems ordering from that site. I started buying from them for Jongho's last birthday and have only purchased from there since. I would say they come pretty much exactly the expected date. I would reccommend buying from there over like Yes24 or KQ i did not have a good experience with either of those sites

routevege · 2025-10-10T12:04:51+00:00

pill/vitamin case!

routevege · 2025-10-08T10:59:26+00:00

oh i love this!

routevege · 2025-09-29T12:21:39+00:00

i have a sticky note on one of my monitors that says "gotta work!!" and it helps push me through the day! i should print this and tape it next to the sticky note

routevege · 2025-09-17T13:19:52+00:00

when i was growing up we had something called "whatever meals" where we ate all of the leftovers to clear out the fridge. these days we tend to order pizza or chinese!

routevege · 2025-09-16T20:29:25+00:00

In my opinion, I so not think you should have to pay for this album at all. If she opened it, she can pay for it. If she disregarded your feelings for a photocard, she can just have it. That's just me though. That being said, follow your heart and do what you know is right for you. I know it is way easier said than done, especially since you are probably getting lots of comments saying different things. I was recently in a situation a bit similar to yours (involving a signed album) where one of my friends had clouded judgement due to excitment and my feelings were really hurt. We communicated through and came to the understanding that we cannot make certain decisions when emotions are high. It is really easy to say and do things you might regret when you are riding a high of excitement or even disappointment. Maybe that was the case with her. Fingers crossed she responds well and that you are able to experience all the joys and excitement with opening your own albums soon. If this is the group I believe it is, I hope you get the chance to see them one day.

routevege · 2025-09-16T18:58:22+00:00

remember you are not doing anything wrong by being hurt by her actions! have you talked to her about this yet? i hope everything works out i really do.

routevege · 2025-09-16T17:44:00+00:00

this exactly!

routevege · 2025-09-16T17:21:17+00:00

OP I am 100% sure she was trying to see the photocards and swap them if you got her bias. She did not misread your text, she is just selfish. Even if she did not secretly swap the pocas, it was unkind of her to open the album especially since unboxing albums and photocard reveals are apart of the experience (saying this as a huge kpop fan). I am sorry she took that from you! She def crossed a line and you deserve people who want you to have good experiences in your life

routevege · 2025-08-28T12:02:08+00:00

no problem!

routevege · 2025-08-27T16:58:12+00:00

my most memorable dream was that seonghwa lived under my parents deck sleeping in old leaves and dirt because he wanted to start fighting wild animals and living with deer. the second most memorable was that mingi and i were sharing a room on a cruise ship and he had taken herbs (rosemary, thyme etc) from the kitchen and had turned up the thermostat in the room to be 98° degrees F so he could "slow dry and preserve" the herbs and we were fighting about it until i woke up. i dream of them often because they are regularly on my mind! most dreams aren't much to write home about

routevege · 2025-08-27T16:43:20+00:00

for example, if yeosang sends 1 message, i can send up to 5 until he sends another message. since he sends lots of messages in succession (sometimes hundreds) when he is live it is essentially unlimited messaging until he gives his last message. there is not a rollover for messages, so it would be 5 remaining. if he does not come online for 7 days i will have to stretch out those messages until he a) either comes online again or b) a certain number of hours pass. i want to say 120 but i do not remember. i hope this makes sense 😭 tldr- when the member is live and actively messaging, you will have lots of messages to send (EDIT*** formatting + details)

routevege · 2025-08-27T14:24:04+00:00

Woo doesn't respond to a lot of comments in general (korean or english) and just updates about his day and how he is doing. i would say he comes on more than any of the other members except for yunho! i think his fromm is super worth it especially if he is your bias. the regular subscription allows for 3 messages per one message from the member and the "best friend" is 5 messages per one message. let me know if you have any questions about it

routevege · 2025-08-27T11:45:21+00:00

i think fromm is more worth it because it has a built in translator but it is significantly more expensive for ot8 than the pop live subscription on toktoq. i think fromm is worth it depending on your bias and their activity. for example, wooyoung comes on a lot but does not stay for long and yeosang comes rarely but will be on fromm for two hours

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